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@ipyrcebt © 4>>3, 4>;<, Kkcr Tm`ivmry, FF@ ^udfcsbml kjl lcstrcdutml dy Kkcr Tm`ivmry FF@, <;0; Ppc`mwiil Pprcjes Tikl, Ptm. H;, Kustcj, R 525=3 Gcrst Mlctcij ircecjkffy pudfcsbml ujlmr tbm tctfm 3;; Akrrckem dy Bipm ir Tm`ivmry FL Ji pkrt i tbcs pudfc`ktcij aky dm rmprilu`ml, stirml cj k rmtrcmvkf systma, ir trkjsacttml cj kjy ira ir dy kjy amkjs, mfm`trijc`, am`bkjc`kf, pbiti`ipycje, rm`irlcje, s`kjjcje, ir itbmrwcsm, wctbiut prcir wrcttmj pmracsscij i tbm ^udfcsbmr. ^udfcsbmr. Tmqumsts ir pmracsscij sbiufl dm kl lrmssml cj wrctcje ti Kkcr Tm`ivmry FF@, <;0; Ppc`mwiil Pprcjes Tikl, Ptm. H-;, Kustcj, R 525=3. Gir emjmrkf cjiraktcij ij itbmr prilu`ts kjl smrvc`ms pfmksm `ijtk`t Kkcr Tm`ivmry– Tm`ivmry–ss @ustiamr @krm Lmpkrtamjt kt (222) =45-4075, www.kkcrrm`ivmry.`ia, ir cjiNbipm-jiw.`ia. Lcs`fkcamr? Jkams i pmrsijs kjl spm`c` `cr`uastkj`ms bkvm dmmj `bkjeml ir pritm`tcij kjl prcvk`y. \m pudfcsbmr kjl kutbir lcs`fkca kjy fckdcfcty tbkt tbkt cs cj`urrml ria tbm usm ir kppfc`ktcij i tbm `ijtmjts i tbcs diih kjl kff wkrrkjtcms, cj`fulcje wctbiut wctbiut fcactktcij wkrrkjtcms i tjmss ir k pkrtc`ufkr purpism. \cs pudfc`ktcij cs sifl wctb tbm ujlmrstkjlcje tbkt tbm kutbir kjl pudfcsbmr krm jit mjekeml cj rmjlmrcje fmekf, jkj`ckf, ir itbmr primsscijkf klvc`m. C prirmsscijkf ksscstkj`m cs rmqucrml, k fc`mjsml akrrckem tbmrkpcst ir `iujsmfir sbiufl dm siuebt c yiu ir yiur spiusm dmfcmvm tbkt su`b smrvc`ms aky dm dmjm`ckf ti mctbmr i yiu ir yiur rmfktcijsbcp. TKLMAKTHP? Kkcr Tm`ivmry kjl tbm Kkcr Tm`ivmry fiei krm trklmakrhs ir rmecstmrml trklmakrhs i Kkcr Tm`ivmry FF@ kjl/ir cts kfffcktms, cj tbm ]jctml ]jctml Ptktms kjl itbmr `iujtrcms, kjl aky jit dm usml wctbiut wrcttmj pmracsscij.
Iur Acsscij? \i rmstirm tbism cj `rcscs ti mxtrkirlcjkry fcvms ig amkjcje kjl purpism.
Um Dmfcmvm • ]j`ijlctcijkf lcejcty kjl rmspm`t krm mssmjtckf • @iaaujcty smrvms ks k `ktkfyst gir bmkfcje • Bmkfml cjlcvclukfs krm vctkf euclms • Mvmry fcgm `kj dm rmstirml • Pmvmrm `rcscs fmkls ti rklc`kf trkjsgiraktcij • Gkcfurm tmk`bms wbkt su``mss `kjjit • \bm pkcj ig cjlmfcty `kj dm bmkfml
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Dirj gria pmrsijkf mxpmrcmj`m Iur stiry tiih riit cj ;32<, wbmj iujlmr Tc`h Tmyjifls kjl bcs wcm Ptmpbkjcm strueefml ti aivm pkst tbm pkcj i bcs cjlmfcty. cjlmfcty. Mvmj ks k akrrckem `iujsmfir kjl kacfy tbmrkpcst, Tc`h bkl t riudfm jlcje rmsiur`ms kjl prierkas tbkt `iufl bmfp tbma rm`ivmr ria tbm kkcr kjl skvm tbmcr akrrckem. \mcr pmrsijkf turjcje picjt `kam kmr jlcje k amjtir `iupfm wbi bkl dmmj cj tbmcr sbims. Kmr tbmy rmducft trust, fmkrjml jmw wkys ti `iaaujc`ktm, `iaaujc`ktm, kjl iujl tbmcr akrrckem strijemr tbkj mvmr dmirm, Ptmpbkjcm ureml Tc`h ti usm tbmcr mxpmrcmj`m ti lmvmfip tiifs ti bmfp itbmr `iupfms strueefcje wctb cjlmfcty. Ks i tilky, Kkcr Tm`ivmry bks bmfpml tbiuskjls i pmipfm dy privclcje rmsiur`ms kjl cjiraktcij kdiut cjlmfcty tbriueb iur `ijlmjtckf ijfcjm `iursms kjl cjtmjscvm wmmhmjl rmtrmkts. Kftbiueb tbm `iapkjy cs dksml cj Kustcj, mxks, Kkcr Tm`ivmry cs tbm rst `iapkjy ti imr kjijyaius ijfcjm eriup suppirt wirflwclm. Tc`h Tmyjifls, F@PU, bifls k Akstmr–s Lmermm cj Pi`ckf Uirh kjl cs k `fcjc`kf amadmr i tbm t bm Kamrc`kj Kssi`cktcij i Akrrckem kjl Gkacfy \mrkpcsts. Bm rm`mcvml bcs Akstmr–s i Pi`ckf Uirh ria tbm ]jcvmrscty i Lmjvmr kjl `iapfmtml tbrmm ymkrs i pist-erkluktm trkcjcje kt tbm @ifirkli Cjstctutm ir Akrrckem kjl Gkacfy \mrkpy.
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iw fije li yiu tbcjh jktcijkf MAP smrvc`ms bkvm dmmj cj pfk`m“(K) ;;5 ymkrs, (D) 5< ymkrs, (@) 40 ymkrs, ir (L) <; ymkrs9 C yiu eumssml L, yiu–rm `irrm`t. Ct wksj–t wksj–t ujtcf ;350 tbkt tbm MAP Pystmas K`t wks pkssml dy @ijermss, wbc`b ujlml tbrmm rmecijkf MAP systmas. Dmirm tbkt tcam, akjy cjjivktcijs wmrm cjtrilu`ml (su`b ks tbm capfmamjtktcij i tbm rst kadufkj`m cj ;27= dy tbm ].P. Kray) tbkt fml ti tbm t bm lmvmfipamjt i iur `urrmjt systma. Ubkt trufy dmekj ti lrcvm tbm `urrmjt Mamremj`y Amlc`kf Pmrvc`ms systma wks k scapfm stktcstc` pudfcsbml cj ;37= dy tbm Jktcijkf Tmsmkr`b @iuj`cf“jmkrfy =>,>>> pmipfm wmrm hcffml tbkt ymkr kfijm cj kuti-rmfktml kuti-rmfktml k``clmjts. \kt cs airm fcvms tbkj wmrm fist cj mcebt ymkrs i tbm Wcmtjka Ukr. Cj rmspijsm, ^rmsclmjt Fyjlij Oibjsij scejml cjti fkw tbm Jktcijkf Bcebwky Pkmty K`t, wbc`b cjctcktml tbm Jktcijkf Bcebwky rkff` Pkmty Klacjcstrktcij. \m jmxt ymkr, cj ;377, Lr. Grkjh ^kjtrclem ^kjtrclem cj Dmfkst, Crmfkjl, stkrtml ti lmfcvmr prm-bispctkf `irijkry `krm uscje kadufkj`ms. kadufkj`ms. ; Bcs rmsmkr`b sbiwml tbkt bcs prierka scejc`kjtfy caprivml caprivml pktcmjt survcvkdcfcty cj iut-i-bispctkf iut-i-bispctkf `krlck` mvmjts. Kllctcijkf rmsmkr`b dmekj ti `irridirktm tbm mm`tcvmjmss i mkrfy cjtmrvmjtcij cj skvcje fcvms. Piamtbcje bkl ti dm lijm ti stma tbm tclm t clm i ujjm`msskry lmktbs. Iut i tbism mirts dmecjjcje cj ;37= mamreml iur `urrmjt MAP systma. \m MAP ( MAP (Mamremj`y Mamremj`y Akrctkf Pmacjkr ) Ijfcjm `iursm, cj wbc`b yiu krm jiw mjekeml, `iams ria scacfkr riits. rkff` ktkfctcms krm jit tbm ijfy trkemly ri`hcje si`cmty. si`cmty. \m cj`clmjts i lcvir`m kjl i cjlmfcty bkvm dmmj shyri`hmtcje scj`m tbm ;3=>s, kjl tbm juadmrs kr mx`mml tbm =>,>>> hcffml hcf fml cj kuti k``clmjts cj ;37=. Fchm Lr. ^kjtrclem–s ‖mkrfy cjtmrvmjtcij‑ rmsmkr`b, stulcms ij akrrckem kjl cjlmfcty bkvm sbiwj tbkt `iupfms rm`mcvcje kppriprcktm typms i mkrfy cjtmrvmjtcij iffiwcje dmtrkykf bkvm k
bcebmr survcvkf rktm tbkj tbism wbi li jitbcje ir wkct ujtcf ct–s ct–s tii fktm. Siu fchmfy `iam ti tbcs `iursm ks k rmsuft i akrctkf mamremj`y stmaacje ria tbm `rcscs i cjlmfcty. MAP Ijfcjm cs Ijfcjm cs k rmspijsm ti tbkt `rcscs. Mvmj dmttmr, tbcs MAP `kj kfsi drcje bipm ti yiur `rcscs. Ubmj yiu cjvmst yiur tcam, yiur akrrckem, kjl yiur uturm cj tbcs ;0-wmmh pri`mss, yiu `kj mamrem ij k pktb ti k jmw smjsm i tiemtbmrjmss kjl dmecj ti ducfl k strijemr akrrckem iut i tbm rucjs.
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Ubmtbmr yiu krm tbm dmtrkyml spiusm ir tbm ijm wbi `kusml tbm pkcj, tbmrm krm ji quc`h xms ir sbirt-tmra acrk`fms. \m pktbwky ti kkcr rm`ivmry cs stmp dy stmp, mk`b i yiu lcs`ivmrcje“cjlcvclukffy kjl tiemtbmr“yiur iwj rifm kjl rmspijscdcfcty cj tbm pri`mss. Siur eikfs aky dm ti bmkf, ti jl kjswmrs, ti bmfp tbm itbmr, ti rmmstkdfcsb trust, ir ti smmh ir imr irecvmjmss. MAP Ijfcjm wcff Ijfcjm wcff bmfp yiu jl yiur wky ti tbmsm eikfs, mvmj c tbm oiurjmy cs pkcjuf. C yiu jmml ti hjiw biw ti rmspijl ti k dmtrkykf, c yiu jmml ti hjiw biw ti bmfp yiur aktm bmkf, c yiu wkjt ti hjiw biw ti rmducfl trust , ir c yiu wkjt ti tkhm tbm wirst tbcje tbkt bks mvmr bkppmjml kjl akhm ct tbm dmst , t bmj MAP Ijfcjm cs Ijfcjm cs mxk`tfy wbkt yiu–vm dmmj fiihcje ir. Pi yiu wcff hjiw tbkt C jit ijfy bkvm tbm primsscijkf `rmlmjtckfs `rmlmjtckfs ti bmfp euclm e uclm yiu ij tbcs oiurjmy dut kfsi tbkt C ujlmrstkjl yiur pkcj, C jmml ti sbkrm ay iwj mxpmrcmj`m. C bkvm wkfhml cj yiur sbims.
Iur Ptiry C `bmktml ij ay wcm, lmvkstktcje ay fcm kjl bmrs kjl turjcje iur wirfl upsclm liwj. Gir Ptmpbkjcm, tbm cjctckf rmvmfktcij i ay dmtrkykf wks mspm`ckffy bkrl d m`kusm sbm wksj–t wksj–t surm wbi ti tmff . . . wbmrm ti turj . . . wbi w bi ti trust . . . wbkt ti rmkl . . . ir mvmj biw ti dmecj ti kllrmss tbm amss. Ct wks airm tbkj kj idstk`fm ti ivmr`iam. C bkl `ist bmr mvmrytbcje“bmr sm`urcty, bmr smf-rmspm`t, tbm fcm sbm bkl `bmrcsbml, bmr lrmkas i tbm uturm. Ct mvmj `ist bmr prclm cj tbm akj sbm–l akrrcml. Jit ijfy tbkt, dut sbm wks kwksb cj tbm kjeucsb i ay kkcrs. Pbm bkl ji clmk biw ti stip tbm pkcj ir qucmt tbm cjtruscvm tbiuebts. Pbm sumrml lkcfy ria tbm pkcjuf rmacjlmrs i ay k`tcijs. Kt tbm skam tcam, C mft bipmfmss dm`kusm C wksj–t mvmj surm biw ti bmfp ir wbkt ti li ir bmr. bmr. C kfsi wkjtml ti jl siam bipm kjl k wky ti wirh tbriueb tbm `rcscs, dut C wksj–t surm tbkt wks pisscdfm. Ptmpbkjcm lmspmrktmfy lmspmrktmfy wkjtml k wky ti aivm dmyijl tbm pkcj“ti stip tbm cjvkscvm tbiuebts, ti jl bipm, ti mmf skm cj bmr akrrckem kekcj, ti mmf eiil kdiut bmr lm`cscijs cj fcm. Jmctbmr i us hjmw biw ti akhm kjy i tbcs bkppmj, dut tbkjhuffy sbm wks kt fmkst wcffcje ti mxpfirm tbm pisscdcfcty. pisscdcfcty. Um lclj–t hjiw wbmrm ti stkrt. Cj ;32< wbmj wm wmjt tbriueb iur `rcscs, rmvsiur`ms wmrm s`kr`m. \mrm wks ji Cjtmrjmt, ijfy k mw diihs, kjl ji suppirt eriups. Ay k`tcijs rmsuftml cj iur bkvcje ti fmkvm iur biam kjl aivm ti kjitbmr `cty. i tbcjh C wks qukfcml ti `ijtcjum ks k akrrckem kjl kacfy tbmrkpcst wks k oihm, si C fm ay
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`krmmr kjl stkrtml ducflcje biusms. (Pcj`m C bkl wrm`hml iurs, ct smmaml fchm k eiil primsscij.) Aist capirtkjt, C lmspmrktmfy wkjtml ti bmfp Ptmpbkjcm rm`ivmr ria wbkt C bkl lijm. ^fmksm lij–t lij–t tbcjh C skw aysmf ks k vc`tca8 C wks tbm t bm ijm rmspijscdfm ir tbm amss. Kt tbm skam tcam, C wkjtml ti dm`iam k akj C `iufl rmspm`t kjl siamijm Ptmpbkjcm `iufl mmf priul i. \kjhuffy, \kjhuffy, Ptmpbkjcm kermml ti wirh tbcs iut wctb am, kjl si iur qumst dmekj. Um rmkl mvmrytbcje wm `iufl emt iur bkjls ij. Um Um tkfhml wctb itbmr `iupfms wbi bkl kfrmkly jkvcektml tbm bmkfcje pri`mss i kj kkcr. Um tkfhml ti mk`b itbmr, wm pri`mssml, wm eit bijmst, kjl C pursuml dm`iacje k akj i kctb kjl `bkrk`tmr. Iur oiurjmy wks kakzcje. C lcs`ivmrml lcs`ivmrml yiu yiu `kj jmvmr dm fivml fivml uj`ijlctcijkffy uj`ijlctcijkffy c yiu ijfy ijfy `ijlctcijkffy fmt tbm itbmr pmrsij hjiw wbi yiu krm. C wks kstijcsbml tbkt ks Ptmpbkjcm dmekj ti trufy hjiw am, sbm `iufl stcff fivm am kjl irecvm am, kjl bmr fivm dmekj ti `bkjem am. Ct wksj–t wksj–t fije ujtcf mvmrytbcje smmaml ti `bkjem kjl iur akrrckem dm`kam dmttmr tbkj mvmr. Ptcff, ct wksj–t wksj–t mjiueb. Mvmrywbmrm wm turjml, wm rkj cjti `iupfms wbi wmrm burtcje, fiihcje ir wkys ti wirh tbriueb tbmcr pkcj, kjl qumstcijcje c tbmrm wks kjy wky ti rmkffy rm`ivmr ria k dmtrkykf. Um sbkrml iur stiry wctb ks akjy ks wm `iufl, dut iur mirts smmaml si cjscejc`kjt `iapkrml `iapkrml ti tbm buem jmml wm wmrm lcs`ivmrcje. Pi kmr vm ymkrs, Ptmpbkjcm `bkffmjeml am ti ei dk`h ti akrrckem kjl kacfy tbmrkpy kjl spm`c`kffy dmecj kllrmsscje tbcs cssum i cjlmfcty. cjlmfcty. Siu `kj–t cakecjm biw bkrl tbkt wks ir am. C mft si ujwirtby dm`kusm i ay pkst, dut Ptmpbkjcm hmpt rmacjlcje am tbkt tbm kcfurm kjl rmlmaptcij i iur akrrckem wmrm tbm vmry tbcjes tbkt uftcaktmfy qukfcml am. Pi wctb bmr mj`iurkemamjt, mj`iurkemamjt, C rmturjml. C wkjtml ti bmfp `iupfms jl tbmcr wky dk`h ria dmtrkykf, kjl Ptmpbkjcm `iaacttml ti bmfpcje am. Pi wm lcl iur biamwirh. Um stulcml wbkt itbmr primsscijkfs wmrm licje tbkt smmaml ti dm wirhcje kjl mvkfuktml tbm fmssijs fmkrjml ria iur pmrsijkf mxpmrcmj`m. \mj wm tiih tbm dmst i mvmrytbcje mvmr ytbcje wm fmkrjml kjl dmekj ti lmvmfip kj mjtcrmfy jmw systma ir trmktcje `iupfms cj `rcscs. Ptmpbkjcm kjl C wmrm ditb tbrcffml t brcffml dy wbkt wm bkl lmvmfipml, dut wm wmrm fcactml dy biw akjy `iupfms C `iufl smm cj k lky. Cj ji wky `iufl wm ammt tbm lmakjl ir iur `cty, au`b fmss dmyijl tbkt. Ay wcm skcl wm bkl ti li airm. Mvmj tbism tkhcje iur `iursm hmpt kshcje biw wm `iufl imr tbcs t bcs prierka ti tbm pipufktcij kt fkrem. Pi Kkcr Tm`ivmry wks dirj“jit iut i ermktjmss dut rktbmr iut i fiss kjl iut i kctb cj Eil–s kdcfcty ti rmlmma tbm crrmlmmakdfm. Itbmr primsscijkfs oicjml us cj tbm pri`mss, kjl wm dmekj ti rmk`b iut ti airm kjl airm burtcje `iupfms.
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K Gcjkf Mj`iurkemamjt Mj`iurkemamjt Fmt am mj`iurkem yiu ti `iapfmtm tbcs oiurjmy. oiurjmy. \cs cs jit kdiut skvcje yiur akrrckem. Airm tbkj kjytbcje, ct–s kdiut emttcje yiur fcm dk`h. Ubcfm C–a surm tbcs cs jit tbm `cr`uastkj`m yiu wiufl `biism, ct cs stcff tbm t bm ijm yiu aust k`m. C prky yiu–ff bkvm tbm cjtmercty kjl `iurkem ti aivm irwkrl ti k jmw fcm. Tc`h Tmyjifls, F@PU
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mf`iam ti Ummh ; i MAP Ijfcjm. Ijfcjm. Ct aky smma ill ti dm ‖wmf`iaml‑ ti tbm oiurjmy yiu–rm yiu–rm kdiut ti dmecj dme cj dm`kusm i tbm pkcj tbkt k``iapkjcms ct. Biwmvmr, Biwmvmr, C wkjt yiu ti hjiw yiu krm jit kfijm, kjl tbism t bism wbi wcff wc ff wkfh kfijesclm yiu ujlmrstkjl tbm burt kjl strueefms yiu wcff k`m. Pi C li wkjt ti wmf`iam yiu ti tbm rst wmmh i MAP Ijfcjm, Ijfcjm, tbm Kkcr Tm`ivmry `iursm. C hjiw tbcs cs kj cj`rmlcdfy lcff`uft pri`mss, si C kpprm`cktm yiur wcffcjejmss ti pkrtc`cpktm kjl ti put
irtb tbm mirt rmqucrml ti wirh tbriueb rm`ivmry. rm`ivmry. C kppfkul tbm k`t tbkt yiu–rm yiu–rm mvmj wkt`bcje tbm vclmi, ir rmklcje tbcs wirhdiih rcebt jiw. Siu–rm trycje ti li siamtbcje. Jit mvmryijm cj k scacfkr sctuktcij bks tbm `iurkem ti k`tukffy try, si wm kpprm`cktm yiu oicjcje us. Ks tbm ijm wbi wks ujkctbuf, yiu acebt dm mxpmrcmj`cje sbkam. Ct–s jit uj`iaaij ti mmf ks c yiu–rm tbm wirst pisscdfm imjlmr, ir tbkt ji ijm mfsm `iufl dm fchm yiu. C mj`iurkem yiu ti dm pktcmjt. Siu–ff jl tbkt fcttfm smpkrktms us ria ijm kjitbmr. \mrm–s k dct i eiil cj tbm wirst i us kjl k dct i dkl cj tbm dmst i us. Lij–t fmt sbkam ir eucft cjbcdct yiur priermss. Siu–ff jl tbcs ujlmrstkjlcje wcff ei k fije wky cj smttcje yiu rmm rmm ria yiur iwj mkrs. Siu Siu kfsi acebt mmf tbcs t bcs pri`mss cs rclc`ufius kjl tbkt yiur aktm sbiufl oust emt ivmr ct. C tbcs cs biw yiu–rm mmfcje, C cjvctm yiu ti `ijsclmr tbm pisscdcfcty tbkt yiur aktm cs jit trycje ti burt yiu. Tktbmr bm ir sbm cs licje wbkt cs jm`msskry ti bmkf. \kjh yiu ir ecvcje yiur aktm tbm ec i tbcs eriup ti `ijjm`t wctb ij tbcs t bcs oiurjmy. Kt Kt tbm vmry fmkst, yiur aktm wcff smm yiur mirts ti bmfp. Au`b i tbm rst `iupfm i wmmhs– aktmrckf cs lcrm`tml tiwkrls tbm spiusm wbi wks ujkctbuf. Biwmvmr, Biwmvmr, tbcs pri`mss cs lmjctmfy k oiurjmy ir tbm twi t wi i yiu ti tkhm t khm tiemtbmr. tiemtbmr. Ks yiu rmkl kjl `iapfmtm tbm cjtmrk`tcvm aktmrckf tbriuebiut t briuebiut tbcs wirhdiih, jl yiur iwj pfk`m cj tbm pri`mss kjl tbm qumstcijs ks tbm twi i yiu smmh rm`ivmry tiemtbmr“mvmj c yiu bkvm jit aklm k jkf lm`cscij kdiut yiur rmfktcijsbcp. Um ksh tbkt yiu kpprik`b tbm oiurjmy wctb smrcius cjtmjt kjl wcffcjejmss w cffcjejmss ti wirh tiemtbmr tbriueb mk`b wmmh–s mxmr`csms. \m mjtcrm MAP Ijfcjm pri`mss Ijfcjm pri`mss cs ;2 ti 4< aijtbs, jit oust tbm ;0 wmmhs i tbcs `iursm, si pfmksm lij–t lij–t tbcjh tbkt kmr tbcs wmmh ir jmxt, tbcjes krm eicje ti dm dmttmr d mttmr..
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Cj k`t, wm–rm wm–rm jit skycje yiu wcff dm bmkfml kmr tbm t bm 3> lkys. Dut C tbcjh yiu–ff jl kt tbm mjl i tbmsm ;0 wmmhs tbkt tbm twi i yiu bkvm bipm, tbkt yiu bkvm k purpism, kjl tbkt yiu bkvm k wky i smmcje biw ti emt tbriueb tbcs.
Ummh ; Eikfs Lurcje tbcs ircmjtktcij wmmh, yiu kjl yiur spiusm wcff dm cjtrilu`ml ti Kkcr Tm`ivmry–s MAP Ijfcjm pri`mss, Ijfcjm pri`mss, k oiurjmy ti stkrt yiu ij tbm rikl ti rm`ivmry ria tbm dmtrkykf tbkt tbrmktmjs ti tmkr kpkrt yiur rmfktcijsbcp. Siu wcff wirh tbriueb tbcs pri`mss ditb cjlcvclukffy (tbriueb smpkrktm wirhdiihs) kjl tiemtbmr, kjl wcff ammt wctb kj ijfcjm eriup. Siur rst wmmh i MAP Ijfcjm (MAPI) wcff kffiw yiu ti? •
Fmkrj biw tbm MAPI pri`mss wirhs
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Ekcj cjctckf cjscebts cjti wbkt ti mxpm`t ks yiu dmecj rm`ivmry
Tmk`bcje tbmsm eikfs tbcs t bcs wmmh wcff rmqucrm yiu ti k`hjiwfmlem yiur `iaactamjt ti tbm pri`mss i bmkfcje, ditb ti yiursmf kjl ti yiur aktm. Siu wcff kfsi jmml ti kloust yiur s`bmlufm kjl prcirctczm tbm tcam yiu wcff jmml ti `iapfmtm tbm wirhdiih `bkptmrs, wkt`b tbm vclmi, kjl pkrtc`cpktm wctb yiur ijfcjm eriup mk`b wmmh. \cs fmvmf i pkrtc`cp krtc`cpktcij ij yiur pkrt kjl tbkt i yiur spiusm cj MAPI–s ujcqum kpprik`b `kj bkvm ermkt rmsufts ir yiur rmfktcijsbcp.
K Jmw Kpprik`b Cj tbm aclst i tbm `rcscs `rmktml dy cjlmfcty, aivcje aivcje irwkrl `kj smma capisscdfm. Cj tilky–s wirfl, auftcpfm rmsiur`ms mxcst ti bmfp yiu wctb tbcs pri`mss, dut ct–s lcff`uft ti hjiw wbkt–s dmst ir yiu kjl yiur sctuktcij. MAP Ijfcjm kllrmssms Ijfcjm kllrmssms tbcs pridfma dy privclcje k jmw kpprik`b cj ksscstcje `iupfms wctb rm`ivmry. rm`ivmry. MAP Ijfcjm lcmrs Ijfcjm lcmrs ria itbmr kpprik`bms. Ct Ct cs kj ijfcjm, eriup-dksml `iursm ir `iupfms wctb k wmmhfy eriup `ijmrmj`m `ijmrmj`m `kff kjl wmmhfy tmk`bcje vclmis. Fmkrjcje wctb itbmrs ks tbmy wrmstfm tbriueb tbm t bm lkakem lijm dy dmtrkykf cs tbm quc`hmst pktb ti bmkfcje. Siu Siu ekcj jmw cjscebts cjti yiur iwj akrrckem dy mxpmrcmj`cje tbm strueefms i itbmrs. Ummh ; | Ircmjtktcij
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Cakecjm bkvcje itbmrs wbi ujlmrstkjl kjl `kj suppirt yiu.
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Cakecjm jkffy dmcje dmfcmvml ir ujlmrstiil dy yiur aktm.
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Cakecjm biw eiil ct wiufl mmf ti smm k wky wky iut iut i yiur lcfmaak.
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Cakecjm dmcje kdfm kdfm ti bkvm bkvm pisctcvm mmfcjes ir yiur aktm ir ti mmf mmf yiur aktm bks pisctcvm mmfcjes tiwkrl yiu kekcj.
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Cakecjm jkffy ujlmrstkjlcje wby tbcs bkppmjml.
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Cakecjm mmfcje bipm tbkt yiu `kj ij`m kekcj mmf skm cj yiur yiur iwj biam.
Ptcff, ir akjy tbm tbiuebt i spmkhcje wctb itbmrs kdiut tbmcr iwj pmrsijkf sctuktcij prilu`ms mkrs i mxpisurm kjl ouleamjt. @iupfms @ iupfms kllrmsscje cjlmfcty k`tukffy ymkrj ir prcvk`y kjl skmty. MAP Ijfcjm pritm`ts Ijfcjm pritm`ts yiur prcvk`y twi wkys. Gcrst, ct i``urs wctbcj vcrtukf ammtcjes, wbc`b amkjs yiu pkrtc`cpktm ria tbm prcvk`y i yiur iwj biam. Pm`ijl, yiu bkvm kjijyacty“fkst jkams, makcf kllrmssms, kjl pbijm juadmrs krm jit sbkrml wctb itbmr amadmrs ujfmss yiu `biism itbmrwcsm. \cs mfcacjktms mkr kjl kffiws yiu ti i`us ij tbm pridfmas rktbmr tbkj wirrycje kdiut lkakem `ijtrif. `ijtrif. Mvmj airm `bkffmjecje ir siam `iupfms cj tbcs pri`mss i rm`ivmry krm tbm fiecstc`kf lcff`uftcms `rmktml dy cjlmfcty ir mvmj dy fcm ctsmf. Gir siam tbm sbkam kssi`cktml wctb tbmcr `cr`uastkj`ms prmvmjts tbma ria sbkrcje wctb tbism wbi `iufl privclm suppirt. \cs kdsmj`m i suppirt akhms fcm mvmj airm `iapfc`ktml. Gir mxkapfm, mxkapfm, ct `kj akhm jlcje `bcfl`krm ti ei ti ammtcjes ir tbmrkpy lcff`uft. Gir itbmrs fcm–s `cr`uastkj`ms `kj bcjlmr k `iupfm– `iupfm–s kdcfcty ti lmkf wctb tbm pridfma. Gir cjstkj`m, acfctkry `iupfms aky dm smpkrktml dy bkf tbm efidm. e fidm. \cs vcrtukf kpprik`b kpprik`b privclms tbm jm`msskry fflmxcdcfcty ti kllrmss tbmsm pridfmas, mvmj wbmj smpkrktml dy `ijtcjmjts.
Hmy Pu``mss Gk`tirs Mvmj airm tbkj tbm prcvk`y tbkt tbm MAP Ijfcjm kpprik`b Ijfcjm kpprik`b privclms mk`b pkrtc`cpktcje `iupfm, tbcs pri`mss `ijtcjums ti privm su``mssuf wctb tbm bujlrmls i `iupfms wbi bkvm cjvmstml tbmcr tcam kjl uffy mjekeml cj tbm `iursm kjl kff i cts mfmamjts. Cj k`t, 2= pmr`mjt i kff `iupfms wbi `iaacttml ti tbm `iursm kjl iffiwml tbriueb bkvm bmkfml kjl“au`b ti tbmcr surprcsm“`ijtcjuml cj tbmcr `urrmjt akrrckem. Bmrm krm k Ijfcjm pri`mss? mw mxkapfms i tbism wbi–vm wbi–vm iujl bipm kjl bmkfcje tbriueb t briueb tbm MAP Ijfcjm pri`mss? •
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iur akrrckem cs dmttmr tbkj t bkj mvmr! Um Um krm stcff uscje wbkt wm fmkrjml ... kjl aivcje irwkrl. \kjh Eil ir MAP Ijfcjm8 Ijfcjm8 ct trufy skvml iur akrrckem!‑ •
‖Jit ijfy cs kff wmff, dut ct–s ct–s akydm dmttmr tbkj ct–s mvmr dmmj! Au`b i tbkt cs lum ti Eil–s wirh tbriueb yiu euys. \kjh yiu ir tbkt. Um aky ir aky jit bkvm spfct up, dut wm wiuflj–t bkvm bmkfml iur rmfktcijsbcp wctbiut tbm euclkj`m ria Kkcr Tm`ivmry Xkjl MAP IjfcjmQ. IjfcjmQ. \m prierka kllrmssms tbm jmmls i tbm burt spiusm si wmff, kjl C `kj bijmstfy sky C–vm jmvmr mxpmrcmj`ml kjytbcje fchm tbkt.‑
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‖XMAP ‖XMAP IjfcjmQ IjfcjmQ fctmrkffy privclml k wky iut i tbm csifktcij tbkt tbm lmspkcr i cjlmfcty `kj drcje, kjl Xdriuebt usQ cjti t bm mffiwsbcp i bipm iujl tbriueb sbkrml mxpmrcmj`ms i rm`ivmry.‑
\m su``mss i MAP Ijfcjm cs Ijfcjm cs lum ti k juadmr i hmy k`tirs cjbmrmjt cj cts ujcqum kpprik`b. \msm su``mss k`tirs rmfktm rmfktm ti ditb tbm pri`mss ctsmf kjl tbm k`t tbkt tbm pri`mss cjvifvms cjvifvms dmcje pkrt i k eriup. \m MAP Ijfcjm aktmrckf Ijfcjm aktmrckf yiu wcff rmkl kjl pkrtc`cpktm cj i`usms ij k juadmr i tipc`s tbkt bmfp k`cfctktm bmkfcje kjl rm`iaactamjt cj `iupfms. Siu wcff fmkrj biw ti tmff yiur stiry cj k skm wky, wky, biw ti dm d m bijmst kjl trutbuf wctb yiur spiusm, biw ti bkvm rktcijkf (ks ippisml ti ffliilml) `ijvmrsktcijs, `ijvmrsktcijs, biw ti lmkf wctb cjtruscvm tbiuebts kjl prmvmjt rmfkpsm, kjl biw ti rmmstkdfcsb trust, `iaactamjt, `iaactamjt, cjtcak`y, kjl bipm cj yiur akrrckem. \m eriup kpprik`b i MAP Ijfcjm kfsi Ijfcjm kfsi cj`rmksms tbm mm`tcvmjmss i tbm pri`mss ir tbm `iupfms pkrtc`cpktcje. Dmcje pkrt i k eriup ir tmka `rmktms k smjsm i wirhcje tiemtbmr, si yiu lij–t mmf kfijm cj wbkt yiu krm eicje tbriueb. Eriups `kj bmfp yiu lmvmfip mapktby ir itbmrs, kjl uftcaktmfy uftcaktmfy ir yiur spiusm-ijm i tbm eikfs i tbm MAP Ijfcjm kpprik`b. Eriups `rmktm kj ktaispbmrm dy wbc`b yiu `kj airm tbiriuebfy pri`mss tbm cjiraktcij yiu wcff bmkr kjl rmkl tiemtbmr kjl cjlcvclukffy. cjlcvclukffy. Uctb tbm prcvk`y pritm`tcij cjbmrmjt cj tbm pri`mss, yiu wcff kfsi jl tbm vcrtukf e riup amadmrs dm`iam skm pmipfm ti tkfh wctb. Bkvcje k skm pfk`m ti sbkrm yiur stircms, mkrs, kjl bipms ks yiu kjl yiur aktm smmh ti bmkf wcff bmfp yiu lmkf wctb yiur maitcijs cj prilu`tcvm rktbmr tbkj lmstru`tcvm wkys.
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Ivmr`iacje Dkrrcmrs ti Pu``mss Kftbiueb MAP Ijfcjm bks Ijfcjm bks k juadmr i k`tirs tbkt cj`rmksm tbm pisscdcfcty i su``mss, ji ijm `kj jl bmkfcje kjl rm`ivmry cj tbcs pri`mss wctbiut pkrtc`cpktcij kjl `iaact`iaactamjt. Lurcje tbcs wmmh–s vclmi, yiu bmkrl kdiut tbm scx pitmjtckf dkrrcmrs ti su``mss ks yiu aivm kbmkl cj smmhcje rm`ivmry ir yiursmf kjl pitmjtckffy yiur rmfktcijsbcp rmfktcijsbcp wctb yiur spiusm. \msm scx dkrrcmrs krm? ;.
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Um kllrmss kff tbmsm dkrrcmrs cj vkrcius wkys tbriuebiut t briuebiut MAP Ijfcjm. Ijfcjm. Biwmvmr, yiu kjl yiur aktm aust kfsi dm kwkrm i tbmsm dkrrcmrs kjl biw tbmy `kj dfi`h yiur rm`ivmry pri`mss. @ijtcjum ti hmmp tbma cj acjl kjl smmh wkys ti ivmr`iam tbma ditb cjlcvclukffy kjl tiemtbmr. Siu–vm aklm k eiil lm`cscij ti tkhm tbcs `iursm, dm`kusm ct wcff privclm yiu wctb tbm rmsiur`ms ti ivmr`iam ivmr`iam tbm dkrrcmrs kjl jl bipm. ;.; Ubc`b ig tbmsm scx dkrrcmrs li yiu jmml ti dm aist kwkrm ig kjl wby9
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Ubkt Ucff Siu Fmkrj cj MAP Ijfcjm9 Mk`b i us bks k bcstirc`kf fmjs bcstirc`kf fmjs tbriueb tbriueb wbc`b wm vcmw iur aktm. \m fijemr yiu–vm yiu–vm dmmj akrrcml, tbm airm lcstirtml tbm fmjs. fmjs. Um lij–t rmkffy smm iur aktms ks tbmy trufy krm ir ujlmrstkjl tbmcr aitcvms. Cjstmkl, wm tmjl ti truj`ktm iur aktm kjl ijfy smm kj kddrm vcktml vmrscij i tbm rmkf pmrsij. Sms, Sms, tbcs bmfps us us scapfcy iur cjtmrk`tcijs cjtmrk`tcijs wctb tbma, dut ct–s kt tbm `ist i ujlmrstkjlcje wbi tbmy trufy krm. K dmtrkykf `iapfc`ktms tbcs pri`mss dm`kusm jiw ditb pkrtcms bkvm k tmjlmj`y ti smm tbmcr aktm tbriueb k airm jmektcvm fmjs. C–vm k`tukffy bkl pmipfm tmff am tbkt ct tiih airm tbkj k ymkr ir tbma ti smm kjytbcje cj tbmcr aktm tbkt tbmy `ijsclmrml pisctcvm kmr tbm cjlmfcty wks rmvmkfml. \m eriup pri`mss i MAP Ijfcjm privclms Ijfcjm privclms k vmbc`fm tbriueb wbc`b yiu `kj airm `fmkrfy smm kjl ujlmrstkjl yiur aktm. Ct cs kr mkscmr ti ujlmrstkjl wbkt–s bkppmjcje tbriueb tbm fcvms i tbm itbmr `iupfms tbkj ct cs tbriueb yiur iwj aktm. \cs jmw cjscebt priaitms k jmw mapktby kjl `iapksscij ir ijm kjitbmr. Ks k pkrt i tbcs lcs`ivmry, MAP Ijfcjm euclms Ijfcjm euclms ditb pkrtjmrs tbriueb t briueb k pri`mss. Ks yiu pkrtc`cpktm, yiu wcff lcs`ivmr? •
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Biw ti lmkf wctb cjtruscvm tbiuebts
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Biw ti bmfp yiur aktm bmkf ria tbm cjlmfcty
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Biw ti stip kjemr ria dmcje k lmstru`tcvm lmstru`tcvm ir`m cj yiur yiur akrrckem
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Biw ti aivm dmyijl tbm ujmjlcje qumstcijs
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Biw ti emt yiur aktm ti ujlmrstkjl tbkt yiu emt ct
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Biw ti hmmp tbcs ria mvmr bkppmjcje kekcj
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Uby ti bifl ij ti bipm
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\cs ;0-wmmh pktb i bmkfcje bks dmmj privml dy akjy pmipfm wbi krm oust fchm yiu, dut tbmrm krm k mw rmqucrmamjts? •
Siu bkvm ti `iapfmtm tbm ;0-wmmh `iursm.
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Siu bkvm ti oicj tbm wmmhfy `ijmrmj`m `kff.
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Siu bkvm ti dm ipmj ti fiihcje kt kt yiursmf.
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Siu wcff jmml ti spmjl kdiut iur biurs k wmmh ij tbm vclmis, `ijmrmj`m `kffs, rmklcje, kjl biamwirh.
i su``mml yiu bkvm ti li tbm wirh. Gkcfurm ti li si jit ijfy rids yiu i jmw pisscdcfctcms dut kfsi rids yiur aktm kjl itbmrs cj tbm eriup. Lij–t akhm k bkfgmkrtml `iaactamjt. Siu–ff jmvmr hjiw tbm trutb ujfmss yiu uffy kppfy yiursmf ti tbm pri`mss.
\bm MAP Ijfcjm ^ri`mss \cs wirhdiih cs pkrt i tbm MAP Ijfcjm oiurjmy Ijfcjm oiurjmy.. Mk`b wmmh yiu wcff vcmw tbm vclmis privclml wctb tbcs wirhdiih kjl `iapfmtm tbm wmmh–s ksscejamjts. \cs cjiraktcij wcff dm rmvcmwml lurcje yiur wmmhfy `ijmrmj`m `kff. \msm eriup `kffs krm wbmrm yiu–ff akhm yiur aist scejc`kjt lcs`ivmrcms. \m wmmhfy eriup eriup wcff smrvm smr vm ti hmmp yiu ij trk`h kjl mjsurm yiu krm aivcje cj tbm rcebt lcrm`tcij. Kjitbmr ujcqum kspm`t tbcs kpprik`b kpprik`b kirls cs fflmxcdcfcty. fflmxcdcfcty. Kff yiu jmml cs k``mss ti k tmfmpbijm ti oicj yiur s`bmlufml eriup `kff. Siu–ff jl yiur eriup ti dm vmry suppirtcvm. Ay mxpmrcmj`m bks dmmj eriups wcff li wbktmvmr cs jm`msskry ti bmfp kff tbm itbmr amadmrs emt wbkt tbmy jmml. C yiu kjl/ir yiur spiusm krm kfrmkly cj `iujsmfcje, MAP Ijfcjm wcff Ijfcjm wcff suppfmamjt suppfmamjt akrrckem kjl kacfy tbmrkpy. Ct cj`fulms smvmrkf mkturms tbkt rmkffy bmfp tbm rm`ivmry pri`mss. Bkvcje itbmr `iupfms wirhcje tbriueb tbm t bm skam prierka k`cfctktms ujlmrstkjlcje, bijmsty, bijmsty, `krcje, rmspm`t, kjl suppirt. Akjy jl tbkt uscje tbcs pri`mss cs fchm puttcje tbm rm`ivmry pri`mss ij stmricls. Ct wcff bmfp yiu aivm quc`hfy kjl mff`cmjtfy tbriueb tbm cjctckf stkems i yiur rm`ivmry pri`mss. Cj k`t, yiu `kj usm tbm MAP Ijfcjm mxmr`csms cj yiur tbmrkpy ti bmfp priaitm urtbmr bmkfcje. Ubcfm MAP Ijfcjm privclms tbm mfmamjts, tbm tiifs, kjl tbm pktbwky ir yiu kjl yiur aktm, yiu aust `iaact ti dmcje cjtmrk`tcvm kjl pkrtc`cpktcje cj kff kspm`ts cj irlmr ti rm`mcvm tbm ermktmst e rmktmst pitmjtckf dmjmt ir yiu kjl yiur akrrckem. Kt tcams yiu wcff
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jmml ti pmrsmvmrm tbriueb tbm pri`mss. Siu kjl/ir yiur aktm pridkdfy wkjt jitbcje airm tbkj ti kffmvcktm tbm pkcj kmr tbm lcs`ivmry i dmt rkykf, dut tbmrm wcff stcff dm pkcj cj tbcs pri`mss. @iaact yiursmf ti smmcje ct tbriueb. ^kcj bks k purpism. Um jmml ti dm kr airm krkcl i jit bmkfcje tbkj wm krm i wkfhcje tbriueb tbm pkcj i bmkfcje. K drihmj dijm `kj bmkf cj`irrm`tfy8 yiu aust smt ct strkcebt ir ct ti bmkf cj k wky tbkt rmstirms uff uj`tcij. ]tcfczm tbm tiifs i MAP Ijfcjm ti ‖smt yiur akrrckem strkcebt,‑ si ct `kj bmkf kjl bkvm tbm `bkj`m ti dm uffy rmstirml. Cj k`t, akjy i tbm `iupfms wbi bkvm eijm dmirm yiu cj tbcs pri`mss bkvm lcs`ivmrml k bmkftbcmr kjl airm sktcsycje akrrckem tbkj tbmy–l mvmr mxpmrcmj`ml dmirm.
Lcs`ivmr tbm Akrrckem Siu–vm Kfwkys Ukjtml ]tcfczcje tbmsm lcmrmjt mfmamjts, MAP Ijfcjm bks Ijfcjm bks privml ivmr kjl ivmr kekcj tbkt yiu `kj k`bcmvm tbm rmsufts yiu kjl yiur spiusm lmscrm. Tmsufts fchm? •
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Fchcje tbm pmrsij yiu–rm yiu–rm akrrcml ti
Siu aky bkvm kermml ti tbcs `iursm, dut yiu–rm jit mvmj surm yiu wkjt yiur akrrckem. C yiu–rm jit surm yiu wkjt ti skvm yiur akrrckem, tbkt kfsi amkjs yiu–rm jit surm tbkt yiu lij–t lij–t wkjt ti skvm ct. Akjy `iupfms jl tbkt tbm `iursm bmfps t bma sifclcy wbkt tbmy wkjt. C yiu bkvm jit lm`clml, C strijefy mj`iurkem yiu jit ti i`us ijfy ij wby yiu sbiufl mjl yiur rmfktcijsbcp wctb yiur spiusm dut ti kfsi smrciusfy `ijsclmr rmksijs ir skfvkecje yiur akrrckem. Dm wcffcje ti fiih d myijl tbm idvcius kjl smm tbm pisscdcfctcms. Cakecjm dmcje kdfm ti bkvm k akrrckem wbmrm tbmrm cs autukf rmspm`t, autukf `krcje, kjl autukf bijmsty bijmsty.. C yiu `iufl bkvm tbkt typm i akrrckem, wby wiufl yiu smttfm ir kj mapty, fijmfy riia9 Lcvir`m su`hs, kjl wbcfm tbkt aky smma fchm tbm ijfy pktb iut i yiur lcfmaak rcebt jiw, ct–s jit trum. Tmsmkr`b sbiws tbkt ct tkhms kdiut vm ymkrs ti rm`ivmr ria k lcvir`m, dut fmss tbkj twi ymkrs ti aivm dmyijl k dmtrkykf. Kjl c ct wcff ijfy tkhm yiu
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;0 wmmhs ti kt fmkst emt ij tbm rcebt trk`h, wby wiuflj–t yiu spmjl ;0 wmmhs ti smm c yiu `iufl skvm yiursmf vm ymkrs i yiur fcm9 Siu aky dmfcmvm yiu bkvm ji mmfcjes ir yiur spiusm. \cs cs jirakf. Biwmvmr, ct lims jit amkj tbkt tbm mirts yiu put cjti MAP Ijfcjm krm Ijfcjm krm ir jitbcje. \mrm cs k strije pridkdcfcty tbism mmfcjes wcff `iam dk`h, dut jit wctbiut siam `bkjems ij ditb yiur pkrts. ^mipfm `kj kjl li `bkjem. \m vmry k`t tbkt yiu bkvm lcmrmjt mmfcjes tilky tbkj yiu lcl ij tbm lky yiu eit akrrcml cs prii tbkt yiu `kj `bkjem. Cj k`t, c ij tbkt lky siamijm bkl tifl yiu tbkt yiu wiufl `bkjem kjl `iam ti k picjt wbmrm yiu `iuflj–t stkjl ti dm jmkr yiur aktm, yiu wiufl bkvm fkuebml kjl skcl ct wiufl jmvmr bkppmj. Pi wbmj C tmff yiu tbkt yiu `kj `bkjem kjl jl k strije lmscrm ir yiur aktm kekcj, yiu aky fkueb kjl sky ct `kj–t bkppmj8 bkppmj8 dut ct `kj. \m `bkffmjem cs tbkt jmektcvm `bkjem i``urs wctb fcttfm ir ji mirt, dut pisctcvm `bkjem tkhms mirt ij iur pkrt. C yiu emt tbm jm`msskry bmfp, tbcjes `kj `bkjem, kjl MAP Ijfcjm cs Ijfcjm cs k ermkt pfk`m ti stkrt. C yiu bkvm `bcflrmj, tbmj ir tbmcr skhm put yiur scj`mrm mirt cjti tbcs wirhdiih kjl `iursm. \m capk`t i lcvir`m ij `bcflrmj cs stkeemrcje“jit ijfy lims ct `iapfc`ktm tbmcr fcvms dut rmsmkr`b cjlc`ktms ct wcff capk`t tbmcr uturm stkjlkrl i fcvcje ks wmff ks tkhm iur ymkrs i tbmcr fcm mxpm`tkj`y. Gcjkffy, Gcjkffy, li tbcs ir yiur iwj skhm. C yiu krm tbm typm i pmrsij w bi dmfcmvms cj tbm cjstctutcij i akrrckem kjl jmvmr cakecjml yiursmf ks pkrt i tbm lcvir`m stktcstc`s, tbmj pmrsijkf cjtmercty wiufl sueemst yiu mxpfirm wirhcje tbriueb tbm cjlmfcty. Cakecjm tbm pmk`m yiu wcff mmf cj bkvcje ji airm sm`rmts ti bclm8 tbm rmfcm cj bkvcje tbm pkcj p kcj kjl suspc`cij stip. Cakecjm hjiwcje yiur aktm ujlmrstkjls yiur wmkhjmssms kjl `biisms yiu kjywky. Cakecjm mmfcje eiil kdiut yiursmf kekcj, mmfcje skm cj yiur iwj biam. Kff i tbcs cs pisscdfm. MAP Ijfcjm bks Ijfcjm bks bmfpml akjy itbmrs dmirm yiu aivm irwkrl ria ria oust cakecjcje tbmsm tbcjes ti mxpmrcmj`cje tbma kekcj.
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;.0 Jiw cs yiur ippirtujcty ti akhm yiur `iaactamjt ti MAP Ijfcjm ditb cjlcvclukffy kjl tiemtbmr. Dmfiw cs tbm `ijtrk`t gir pkrtc`cpktcje cj MAP Ijfcjm. Siu kjl yiur spiusm mk`b bkvm k `ipy cj yiur cjlcvclukf wirhdiihs ti scej ks kj cjlc`ktcij ig yiur `iaactamjt ti tbcs pri`mss. Mk`b ig yiu sbiufl rmkl kjl scej yiur `ipy cjlcvclukffy kjl tbmj rmkl tbriueb tbm tmras tiemtbmr, si yiu–ff dm gkacfckr wctb tbcs `ijtrk`t ks yiu aivm girwkrl tiwkrl rm`ivmry.
Kkcr Tm`ivmry @iursm @ijtrk`t C, girtb cj tbm giffiwcje `ijtrk`t?
, bmrmdy kermm ti tbm tmras smt
;. @iaactamjt? C kermm ti `iapfmtm tbcs ;0-wmmh `iursm dmgirm akh-
cje k lm`cscij ti mctbmr stky ir fmkvm tbcs akrctkf rmfktcijsbcp. 4. Li Ji Bkra? C kermm ti wirh kt mfcacjktcje dmbkvcirs tbkt krm bkraguf ti ay aktm, ay akrrckem, kjl aysmfg. 0. ^krtc`cpktcij? C wcff `iapfmtm kff ksscejamjts. (\bmsm ksscejamjts
krm jit oust gir yiur dmjmt, dut tbmy krm kfsi gir tbm dmjmt ig tbm `iaaujcty ig wiujlml pmipfm tbkt wcff dm k pkrt ig yiur oiurjmy. C `kjjit strmss biw capirtkjt ct cs ti `iapfmtm tbm biamwirh. Gkcfurm ti li si wcff jit ijfy rid tbism pkrtc`cpktcje wctb yiu cj tbcs oiurjmy, dut ct wcff kfsi rid yiu ig tbm ippirtujcty gir pmrsijkf eriwtb. Gcjkffy, Gcjkffy, gkcfurm ti `iapfmtm tbm biamwirh wij–t dm eiil gir yiur akrrckem. Siu li jit wkjt ti dm tbm ijfy pmrsij wbi bks jit `iapfmtml tbmcr biamwirh. \bcs wcff ijfy smrvm ti `rmktm airm burt kjl lcs`iurkemamjt gir yiur aktm.) <.@ijlmjtckfcty? C kermm ti rmspm`t tbm kjijyacty ig itbmr eriup
amadmrs. \bm eriup cs cjtmjlml ti rmakcj titkffy t itkffy kjijyaius, dut cg dy siam strkjem `bkj`m C lcs`ivmr tbm k`tukf clmjtcty ig ijm ig tbm eriup amadmrs, C kermm ti pritm`t tbmcr kjijyacty kjl `ijlmjtckfcty. =. Bijmsty? C kermm ti dm rceiriusfy bijmst wbcfm pkrtc`cpktcje cj tbcs
eriup, spmkhcje tbm trutb cj fivm, licje ay dmst jit ti gurtbmr wiujl ay aktm ir itbmr eriup amadmrs.
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7. Tmspm`t? C kermm ti fmt itbmrs dm wrije. (Um bkvm giujl cj licje
bujlrmls bujlrmls ig tbmsm eriups tbkt ct cs pisscdfm gir pmipfm jit ti emt ct. \bm tmjlmj`y cs ti wkjt ti bmfp tbma dy trycje ti akhm tbma ujlmrstkjl.) C kermm ti fmt tbma dm wrije, ijfy mxprmsscje ay ipcjcij kgtmr rm`mcvcje tbmcr pmracsscij ti sbkrm. 5. Kttmjlkj`m? C kermm ti akhm mvmry mirt ti kttmjl kff ;0 eriup
ammtcjes. C ujlmrstkjl ay pkrtc`cpktcij cs jit ijfy capirtkjt gir ay iwj bmkfcje, dut C kfsi drcje kj capirtkjt pcm`m ti tbm bmkfcje pri`mss ig itbmr eriup amadmrs. 2. Pkgmty (gir tbm ‖ujgkctbguf‑ spiusm)? Lurcje tbcs ;0-wmmh pri`mss, C
kermm ti suspmjl ay rmfktcijsbcp wctb ay kkcr pkrtjmr (cg tbmrm cs kjitbmr pmrsij). Lurcje tbcs pri`mss C wcff gi`us ij ay pmrsijkf bmkfcje kjl mxpfirm tbm pitmjtckf gir ay akrrckem. C wcff jit akhm k pmrakjmjt lm`cscij ujtcf tbm eriup bks dmmj `iapfmtml. C kermm jit dm vmrdkffy ir pbysc`kffy kduscvm ti ay aktm. 3. Pkgmty (gir tbm ‖dmtrkyml‑ spiusm)? C wcff akhm mvmry mirt jit ti dm
kduscvm ti ay aktm ivmr tbm jmxt ;0 wmmhs, mctbmr vmrdkffy ir pbysc`kffy. C wcff kttmapt ti dm skgm mjiueb gir bca ir bmr ti mjekem wctb am cj tbcs pri`mss. (Gir siam tbcs aky dm lcff`uft, dut ct–s capirtkjt ti bijir tbcs pri`mss mvmj cg ct limsj–t smma gkcr.) Pcejml
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Cj `ij`fulcje tbcs ircmjtktcij wmmh, wm wcff rmkl tbm giffiwcje cjtmrvcmw `ijlu`tml dy k `iffmkeum. Cj ct C kjswmr k smrcms ig qumstcijs kdiut cjlmfcty. ^fmksm rmkl tbm cjtmrvcmw cj yiur wirhdiih, bcebfcebtcje tbm stktmamjts tbkt rmsijktm wctb yiu. Ij`m yiu bkvm ditb jcsbml rmklcje kjl bcebfcebtcje, fiih kt mk`b itbmr–s wirhdiihs kjl lcs`uss tbm scacfkrctcms kjl lcmrmj`ms cj wbkt mk`b ig yiu bcebfcebtml. Siu wcff jl tbcs k usmguf wky ti `iaaujc`ktm. Siu wcff dm lcs`usscje tbmsm ctmas ks yiu pkrtc`cpktm cj yiur rst eriup ammtcje.
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\bm Tmkfcty ig Kkcrs dy Tc`h Tmyjifls, F@PU
\m iffiwcje cs k trkjs`rcpt ria kj cjtmrvcmw `ijlu`tml dy Ucff Ucff Lkvcs, pkstir i Kustcj @brcstckj @br cstckj Gmffiwsbcp. Gmffiwsbcp. Ucff? Tc`h Tmyjifls, wbkt li yiu li9 Tc`h ? C–a k akrrckem kjl kacfy tbmrkpcst spm`ckfczcje cj cjlmfcty kjl
smxukf kllc`tcij. Ucff? Biw akjy ymkrs bkvm yiu dmmj `iujsmfcje pmipfm cj tbm krmk i cj-
lmfcty, lmfcty, Tc`h9 Kjl biw lcl yiu emt cjvifvml cj tbcs pkrtc`ufkr pkrt c`ufkr spm`ckfty9 Tc`h ? Cj ;32< C dm`kam cjtmrmstml cj kkcr rm`ivmry rm`ivmry kmr bkvcje ti bmkf
ria ay iwj kkcr. Pi ay oiurjmy dmekj wctb ay iwj rm`ivmry. Fktmr, C wks irtujktm mjiueb ti dm kdfm ti usm au`b i wbkt C lcs`ivmrml ti bmfp itbmrs cj tbmcr oiurjmys ks wmff. Ucff? Pi, cj yiur dkzcffcij d kzcffcij ymkrs i mxpmrcmj`m, biw akjy `iupfms li yiu
tbcjh yiu–vm trmktml tbkt bkvm dmmj tbriueb k akrctkf kkcr i siam hcjl9 Tc`h ? ^ridkdfy siamwbmrm cj tbm rkjem i twi tbiuskjl `iupfms. Ucff? Uiw, twi tbiuskjl `iupfms. Siu usml k wirl k acjutm kei“ cj-
lmfcty . \kt `ijtkcjs kff hcjls i ivmrtijms ti am. Lmjm ct ir us. Ubkt cs cjlmfcty9 Tc`h ? Cjlmfcty, Cjlmfcty, ks Grkjh ^cttakj AL (ijm i tbm fmklcje kutbirctcms cj
tbm mfl i cjlmfcty kjl tbm kutbir i ^rcvktm Fcms) Fcms) skys, cs jitbcje airm tbkj tbm ‖hmmpcje i sm`rmts.‑ ; Ucff? Ihky, Ihky, yiu oust fist am. C tbiuebt cjlmfcty wks bkvcje smx wctb
siamdily iutsclm yiur akrrckem.
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Tc`h ? Bkvcje smx iutsclm i akrrckem cs ijm ira i cjlmfcty, cjlmfcty, dut tbmrm
krm akjy wkys ti dm ujkctbuf ti yiur aktm. Siu `kj bclm wbkt yiu–rm licje jkj`ckffy, ir k rcmjlsbcp yiu hjiw yiur aktm wiuflj–t kpprivm i. Hmmpcje cjiraktcij kjl dmbkvcirs ria yiur aktm, mspm`ckffy c yiu hjiw tbmy wiufl idom`t, cs cjlmfcty. cjlmfcty. Ucff? C C `bmkt ij ay cj`iam tkx, ir c C duy k dc`y`fm kjl lij–t tmff ay
wcm biw C pkcl ir ct, C–a dmcje kj cjlmf9 Tc`h ? Kt ijm fmvmf, yms. Dut typc`kffy tbm aist pkcjuf ira i cjlmfcty cs
smxukf ir rmfktcijkf cj jkturm. Piam pmipfm `iapfkcj kdiut tbm usm i tbm tmra cjlmfcty , skycje ct acjcaczms tbm akejctulm i tbm k`tcij, dut cj rmkfcty, rmkfcty, cjlmfcty cs au`b driklmr tbkj oust siamijm bkvcje smx iutsclm i akrrckem. Ucff? Uby cs bkvcje smx iutsclm i akrrckem wirsm ir k akrrckem tbkj k
euy jit tmffcje bcs wcm biw bm pkcl ir tbm dc`y`fm9 Tc`h ? Pmxukf ir maitcijkf dmtrkykf cs quctm lcmrmjt ria fycje kdiut biw
yiu pkcl ir k dchm ir kdiut bcllmj lmdt. Pmxukf ir maitcijkf cjlmfcty lmkfs wctb tbm vmry mssmj`m i iur dmcje. Ucff? Biw si9 Tc`h ? Buakj dmcjes krm rmfktcijkf cj jkturm. Um jmml sm`urm kttk`bamjts
oust ti survcvm. Uctbiut Uctbiut tbmsm kttk`bamjts, kttk`bamjts, wm wcff lcm. Ptulcms bkvm bkvm mvmj iujl tbkt `bcflrmj cj kj irpbkjkem wbi krm jmvmr pc`hml up wcff kcf ti tbrcvm kjl wcff lcm. \m wirst pujcsbamjt yiu `kj ecvm kj kluft cs sifctkry `ijjmamjt. Uctbiut Uctbiut maitcijkf kttk`bamjt, wm `kj–t `kj–t survcvm. Kff i us“klufts ks wmff ks `bcflrmj“jmml tbism skm kttk`bamjts. Pi biw lims cjlmfcty rmfktm ti tbcs9 Cjlmfcty lkakems ir lmstriys tbkt prcakry kttk`bamjt, fmkvcje tbm dmtrkyml pkrtjmr `iapfmtmfy lcsircmjtml. Ct `kj fctmrkffy mmf fchm tbmy fist tbmcr mqucfcdrcua ir clmjtcty. clmjtcty. Ucff? Idvciusfy iur `ufturm cs `bkjecje kjl mvifvcje. Biw li yiu tbc jh
iur `ufturm–s pmr`mptcij i cjlmfcty ir kluftmry bks `bkjeml tilky9
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cty. Kt ijm fmvmf ct smmas `bmktcje bks dm`iam airm k``mptkdfm“akydm jit ir tbm pmrsij p mrsij dmcje `bmktml ij“kjl `mrtkcjfy tbm Cjtmrjmt kjl `mff pbijms prmsmjt kr airm ippirtujctcms kjl jmw vmjums ir cjlmfcty ti i``ur. \m sm`rm`y kjl prcvk`y privclml dy tilky–s tm`bjifiey akhm su`b dmbkvcir smma kr fmss lkjemrius ir burtuf. Ucff? Ubkt krm tbm mfmamjts i kj kkcr9 Tc`h? Kkcrs bkvm tbrmm prcakry `iapijmjts? `iapijmjts? ;. Pm`rm`y ? Puppism twi pmipfm krm spmjlcje biurs ij tbm pbijm tkfhcje
kjl tmxtcje, dut tbmy jmvmr tmff tbmcr pkrtjmrs kdiut tbmcr jmw rmfktcijsbcp. rmfktcijsbcp. Mvmj c jitbcje smxukf bks i``urrml, tbmcr pkrtjmrs wc ff stcff mmf dmtrkyml. 4. Maitcijkf Cjtcak`y ? Pbkrcje cjiraktcij wctb kjitbmr pmrsij tbkt
yiu–rm yiu–rm rmfu`tkjt ti sbkrm wctb yiur pkrtjmr `rmktms kj maitcijkf cjtcak`y tbkt cs ermktmr tbkj tbkt wctb yiur pkrtjmr. Pu`b cjtcak`y wcff dm burtuf kjl tbrmktmjcje ti yiur pkrtjmr. K rmqumjt pktb ti kj kkcr `iams ria sbkrcje jmektcvm lmtkcfs wctb kjitbmr pkrty pkrt y kdiut yiur `urrmjt rmfktcijsbcp. \kt–s tbm mqucvkfmjt i skycje, ‖C–a vufjmrkdfm kjl burtcje kjl aky dm kvkcfkdfm cj tbm jmkr uturm .‑ 0. Pmxukf @bmacstry ? \cs bks jitbcje ti li wctb tiu`bcje8 ct–s airm
kdiut mxprmsscje kttrk`tcij. Imj ct dmecjs wctb k stktmamjt fchm, ‖C bkl k lrmka kdiut yiu fkst jcebt, dut i `iursm, C–a akrrcml, si wm wij–t li kjytbcje kdiut tbkt.‑ \cs typm i kj mxprmsscij i kttmjtcij ir kttrk`tcij ermktfy cj`rmksms tbm pridkdcfcty i kj kkcr. Cj k`t, ct–s tbm mxprmsscij i mxprmsscij i lmscrm ir kjitbmr pmrsij tbkt lmtmracjms tbm dmecjjcje picjt i kj kkcr. kkcr. Ucff? Biw lims tbkt lcmr ria smxukf kllc`tcij9 Tc`h? Pmxukf kllc`tcij cs airm kdiut kj ijeicje pkttmrj i dmbkvcirs
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C k pmrsij bks tbrmm ir airm i tbmsm syaptias, syaptias, bm ir sbm aky dm lmkfcje wctb kj kllc`tcij. Ucff? Siu sky ‖bm ir sbm.‑ @kj k wiakj bkvm k ‖smxukf kllc`tcij‑9 Tc`h ? Sms, dut ct tmjls ti bkvm airm i k rmfktcijkf `iapijmjt. Piam tmjl
airm tiwkrl ‖fivm kllc`tcij,‑ wbc`b cs rmkffy tbm skam tbcje, dut ir tbma ct `kj dm airm kdiut tbm maitcijkf bceb tbmy emt ria tbm rmfktcijsbcp. Ucff? Biw lims rm`ivmry ria smxukf kllc`tcij lcmr ria rm`ivmry kmr
kj kkcr9 Tc`h ? Gir tbm `iupfm tbmrm cs fcttfm lcmrmj`m. \m maitcijkf capk`t ti tbm
burt spiusm cs tbm skam“k dmtrkykf cs k dmtrkykf. dmt rkykf. \m akejctulm i tbm dmtrkykf cs airm k k`tir i tbm psy`bifiec`kf akhmup i tbm burt spiusm. Tmekrlfmss, tbm `iupfm wcff jmml ti kllrmss tbm dmtrkykf ti mjsurm tbm rmfktcijsbcp cs skm. \m lcmrmj`m cs tbm pktb i rm`ivmry ir tbm ujkctbuf spiusm. Pmx kllc`ts jmml tbm suppirt i k ;4-stmp prierka ti bmfp tbma lmvmfip tbm shcffs jm`msskry ti rm`ivmr. rm`ivmr. Ij tbm t bm itbmr bkjl, tbm cjlcvclukf cj kj mjtkjefml rmfktcijsbcp aky jmml bmfp lcs`ijjm`tcje ria tbm kkcr pkrtjmr kjl 42
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lmtmracjcje tbm `kusm i tbm kkcr. kkcr. Ucff? Ubkt lims kff i tbcs li ti iur si`cmty9 C akrrckem dijls krm dm-
`iacje airm jmeitckdfm kjl cjlmfcty airm cj vieum, biw lims t bkt km`t si`ckf kdrc`9 Tc`h ? C dmfcmvm ct `rmktms kj caakturm `ufturm kjl k smf-`mjtmrml, smf-kd-
sirdml `ufturm. C dmfcmvm akrrckem cs Eil–s Eil–s prcakry pmipfm-eriwcje ak`bcjm. Ct–s tbm prcakry vmbc`fm Bm usms ti bmfp akturm us kjl tmk`b us ti fivm. Ubmj wm dmecj ti pursum iur iwj smf-sktcsk`tcij kjl bkppcjmss, wm `mksm eriwcje maitcijkffy. maitcijkffy. Lcvir`m hmmps k fit i pmipfm p mipfm irmvmr caakturm. Ucff? Caakturm9 Tc`h ? Um rmakcj smf-`mjtmrml, jmvmr fmkrjcje biw ti fivm. Um dm`iam k
fivmfmss `ufturm, `ufturm, fcactml cj iur kdcfcty ti `krm kdiut itbmrs, i`uscje ijfy ij iursmfvms. Ucff? Krm tbmrm `iaaij tbrmkls ir `bkrk`tmrcstc`s yiu smm c j pmipfm tbkt
bkvm kkcrs9 Tc`h ? Jit cj tbm wky yiu wiufl tbcjh. Ct–s jit ks c dkl pmipfm bkvm kkcrs.
C hjiw siam rmkffy jm pmipfm tbkt mjlml up cj kj kkcr. \m `iaaij `bkrk`tmrcstc`s krm dmttmr smmj cj tbmcr rmspijsm ti bkvcje tbm kkcr. kkcr. Aist krm pmipfm wbi jl ct lcff`uft ti dm bijmst kdiut wbkt tbmy–vm lijm. Kt ijm fmvmf, tbmy–rm krkcl ti dm k lcskppicjtamjt, lcskppicjtamjt, tbmrmirm tbmy li mvmrymvmr ytbcje pisscdfm ti akjkem tbmcr cakem si tbmcr k`tcijs wij–t wij–t burt tbism cjvifvml wctb tbma. ^ridfma cs, yiu `kj–t kllrmss tbm pridfma c yiu `kj–t iwj tbm pridfma kjl dmecj ti lmkf wctb ct. Ucff? Tc`h, yiu amjtcijml tbmrm krm lcmrmjt typms i kkcrs. @kj yiu tmff
am kdiut tbma9 Tc`h ? Piam kkcrs i``ur dm`kusm siamijm cs oust lcssktcsml wctb tbmcr
akrrckem8 siam dmfcmvm tbmy–vm iujl siamijm mfsm wbi akhms tbma mmf
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dmttmr kdiut tbmasmfvms. Dm`kusm i tbm mmfcjes emjmrktml dy tbm kkcr, tbm ujkctbuf aktm dmfcmvms tbmy bkvm ‖kffmj cj fivm.‑ Um wiufl `kff tbkt k ‖ypm wi‑ kkcr . . . Ucff? Pi siamtcams k pmrsij kffs cj fivm wctb siamijm dmsclms tbmcr
pkrtjmr9 Cs tbkt rmkf9 Li pmipfm ‖kff cj fivm‑9 fivm‑9 C tbiuebt fivm wks k `bic`m. Girecvm am ir cjtmrruptcje yiu, dut tbkt kffcje cj fivm . . . \kt siujls fchm k Lcsjmy tbcje. Tc`h ? Ihky, fmt–s mxpfkcj ‖kffcje cj fivm.‑ Dksc`kffy, tbm tmra yiu–rm tkfhcje
kdiut bmrm cs fcamrkj`m, fcamrkj`m, k wirl `icjml dy psy`bifiecst Liritby mjjiv cj tbm fktm smvmjtcms. 4 ^mipfm `kj k`tukffy kff cjti fcamrkj`m. Fcamrkj`m cs k pbyscifiec`kf rmk`tcij wbmrm siamijm mxpmrcmj`ms k strije kttrk`tcij ti kjitbmr pmrsij. Ct cs wbkt wm rmqumjtfy rmmr ti ks cjktuktcij. Ct–s k Eil-`rmktml am`bkjcsa cjtmjlml cjtmjlml ti bmfp us cjctckffy dijl wctb iur aktm. \m ijfy pridfma cs, dmcje akrrcml limsj–t limsj–t prm`fulm tbm fcamrkjt rmk`tcij ria dmcje k`tcvktml mfsmwbmrm. Ucff? Cs ct mris9 mris9 Tc`h ? Ct–s lmjctmfy mris. mris. Ct–s jit kdiut wbkt–s cj tbm dmst cjtmrmst i tbm itb-
mr pmrsij. Ct–s wbkt C–vm eit ti bkvm cj irlmr ti dm ufffml. Ucff? Ihky, si ct–s kdiut am. Tc`h ? Ct–s titkffy kdiut am. Ct–s wbmj siamijm tbcjhs tbmy–vm iujl tbmcr
ijm trum siufaktm, kjl cj tbmcr acjl tbmy–vm kffmj cj fivm wctb tbkt pmrsij. C akrrckem bks dmmj k lcskppicjtamjt, tbmj tbmy akhm tbm `iejctcvm fmkp i dmfcmvcje tbmy–ff dm d m bkppcmr wctb tbcs itbmr pmrsij. \m pridfma cs, rmsmkr`b bks sbiwj tbkt fcamrkj`m fksts ji fijemr tbkj tbrmm ymkrs. Mvmj wirsm, ijm i tbm prcakry pridfmas wctb fcamrkj`m cs k `ijlctcij `kffml ‖`rystkffczktcij‑“pmipfm ‖`rystkffczktcij‑“pmipfm `kjjit dm idom`tcvm kdiut tbm itbmr pmrsij wbcfm tbmy krm sacttmj. Ct– Ct–s jit tbkt tbmy kcf ti smm tbm itbmr pmrsij–s kufts ir wmkhjmssms8 ct–s tbkt cj tbm fcamrkjt stktm, tbism pridfmas krm i ji `ij`mrj. Cjstmkl, tbmy smm tbism qukfctcms ks mjlmkrcje ir ujcqum. Fktmr, biwmvmr, kmr tbm fcamrkj`m bks klml, tbmy–rm stu`h wctb
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k`cje k lcskppicjtcje rmkfcty. rmkfcty. Mvmj airm i k pridfma, ct–s lcff`uft ti drmkh iut i tbcs typm i rmfktcijsbcp. Ct–s ks c tbmy krm kllc`tml ti tbm itbmr pmrsij. \my aky autukffy kermm ti drmkh i tbm kkcr, dut jl tbmy bkvm ti `kff ti `bm`h up ij tbm itbmr pmrsij. Ubmj tbmy krm wctb tbmcr t bmcr kkcr pkrtjmr, tbmy mmf eucfty8 wbmj tbmy krm wctb tbmcr aktm, tbmy–rm tbmy–rm acsmrkdfm. Pi tbmy bkjlfm tbm acsmry ks fije ks pisscdfm p isscdfm kjl tbmj ei dk`h ti tbm kkcr pkrtjmr, wbmrm tbmy mxpmrcmj`m m`stksy. m`stksy. \mj wbmj tbm eucft euc ft ivmrtkhms tbma, tbmy ei dk`h ti tbmcr aktm. Mvmjtukffy k pkttmrj lmvmfips wbmrm tbmy–rm rmjlmrml cj`kpkdfm i akhcje k lm`cscij. Ucff? Biw cs tbm `y`fm mvmr drihmj9 Tc`h? Kkcrs jmvmr mjl dcfktmrkffy8 ct–s ct–s kfwkys k ujcfktmrkf lm`cscij. C tbm
twi kkcr pkrtjmrs lm`clm tiemtbmr ti mjl tbm kkcr, kkcr, tbmj cj rmkfcty tbmy–vm oust `rmktml `rmktml k `ivmrt kffckj`m ti `ijtcjum wirhcje tiemtbmr tiwkrl tiwkrl k `iaaij eikf. @ijsmqumjtfy tbmrm kfwkys wcff dm k puff ti `bm`h ti smm biw t bm itbmr pmrsij cs licje, wbc`b mxtmjls tbm `iaaujc`ktcij dmtwmmj tbma. Jiw tbmy–vm eit tbcs jidfm `kusm ti wirh tiwkrl. Dut c ijm pkrty ij tbmcr iwj lmtmracjms tbmy–rm lijm, tbmj tbm sbiw cs ivmr. \my krm ji fijemr lmpmjlmjt ij tbm itbmr pmrsij–s lm`cscijs ir k`tcijs. Jiw tbmy–rm k`tcje ij tbmcr iwj. Ucff? Ubkt c siamijm cs `kuebt cj kj kkcr kjl kermms ti mjl ct9 Cs tbkt
pmrsij kdfm ti drmkh ct i9 Tc`h ? Piamtcams, dut tbkt–s tbkt–s tbm mx`mptcij. Ks tbm skycje eims, ‖\m spcrct cs
wcffcje, dut tbm fflmsb cs wmkh.‑ 0 C `kj–t tmff yiu biw akjy `ksms C–vm trmktml wbmrm siamijm cs `kuebt, kjl tbmj wctb tbmcr aktm ij tbm pbijm, tbmy tmff tbm kkcr pkrtjmr ct–s ivmr, ijfy ti rmmstkdfcsb `ijtk`t fktmr, ujlmr tbm rmksijcje tbkt tbmy krm `bm`hcje ti smm biw tbm itbmr pmrsij cs licje. \msm rmfktcijsbcps `krry rmkf maitcijs, kjl mvmj wbmj `ijtk`t cs `ut i, tbm mmfcjes `kj fcjemr ir k tcam. Kfsi, ct `kj dm mspm`ckffy mksy ir k pmrsij ti oustcy `ijtk`tcje t bm kkcr pkrtjmr c tbmy–rm `iaacttml ti stkycje cj tbmcr akrrckem. \my smm tbcs k`tcij ks k airm `cvcf wky i mjlcje tbm kkcr. \my emjucjmfy mmf dkl
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ir tbm jmektcvm capk`t tbmy–vm bkl ij tbm itbmr pkrty kjl wkjt ti akhm ct dmttmr. Ucff? Ubkt–s kjitbmr typm i kkcr9 Tc`h ? Piam pmipfm rmkffy fivm tbmcr akrrckem, dut tbmy `krmfmssfy put
tbmasmfvms cj k bceb-rcsh sctuktcij kjl dkl tbcjes bkppmj. \my–rm ij k duscjmss trcp kjl ei iut wctb tbm euys, ijfy ti jl t bmasmfvms kt k tipfmss `fud, ir tbmy krm kfijm kt k `iapkjy pkrty kjl emt lrujh kjl jl tbmasmfvms fflcrtcje wctb siamijm mfsm. Grmqumjtfy Grmqumjtfy tbmsm pmipfm p mipfm bkvm jmvmr lijm kjytbcje fchm tbcs dmirm, dut tbmy mjl up bkvcje k ijm-jcebt stkjl. Emjmrkffy tbmy–rm birrcml kt wbkt tbmy–vm lijm. Li tbmy tmff tbmcr spiusm ir li tbmy tkhm tbm sm`rmt ti tbmcr erkvm9 Ucff? Csj–t tbkt hcjl i ijm-jcebt stkjl k syaptia i k fflkwml `bkrk`tmr
cssum ir k kcfurm cj airkf rmstrkcjt9 Tc`h ? Jit jm`msskrcfy. jm`msskrcfy. C hjiw siam rmkffy eiil ifhs wbi bkvm kffmj cjti
tbkt ijm. Akjy tbcjes krm quctm `kpkdfm i capkcrcje tbm dmst ouleamjt“ su`b ks kf`ibif, ktceum, ir lmmkt. Grmqumjtfy tbmsm krm k`tcijs tbm pmrsij wiufl bkvm jmvmr `ijsclmrml c tbmy bklj–t bklj–t dmmj cj tbkt pkrtc`ufkr bcebrcsh sctuktcij. Ucff? Ubkt kdiut smxukf kllctcij9 Tc`h ? Pmxukf kjl fivm kllc`tcij krm airm kdiut tbm dkeekem driuebt cjti
tbm rmfktcijsbcp. rmfktcijsbcp. Piam bkvm bkl k liudfm mxcstmj`m kff tbmcr fcm8 itbmrs krm mxpisml fktmr cj fcm ti tbm kllc`tcvm kemjt kjl tbmj lmvmfip tbmcr s m`rmt fcm. Pmxukf kllc`ts rmqumjtfy dmfcmvm tbmy `kj sudstctutm eiil smx ir dkl smx, si pmrbkps tbmy akrry, mxpm`tcje mvmrytbcje ti dm jm. Ij`m tbmy emt akrrcml, tbmy lcs`ivmr tbkt tbm akrrckem rmfktcijsbcp limsj–t limsj–t s`rkt`b tbm skam ct`b, kjl tbkt kff tbmy lcl wks kll ti tbmcr t bmcr smxukf rmpmrticrm. Jiw tbmy bkvm eiil smx kjl dkl dkl smx. Ct–s jit tbkt su`b cjlcvclukfs lij–t wkjt tbm akrrckem8 dut c tbmy `iuflj–t `iuflj–t stip tbm dmbkvcir dmirm tbm akrrckem, wbkt akhms tbma tbcjh tbmy–ff tbmy– ff dm kdfm ti stip tbm dmbkvcir ij`m tbmy–rm akrrcml9 C tbmy wmrm smrcius ij tbm lky tbmy stiil kt tbm kftkr kjl viwml
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ti dm kctbuf, wbkt bks `bkjeml tbkt wcff rmjlmr tbma `kpkdfm i dmcje kdfm ti li ct jiw9 Cjlcvclukfs wbi krm trufy kllc`ts jmml kllctcijkf bmfp ti stip tbmcr `iapufscvm `iapufscvm smxukf kjl/ir rmfktcijkf dmbkvcir. dmbkvcir. \my wcff jmml tbm suppirt i k prierka `kpkdfm i bmfpcje tbma emt rcl i tbmcr sbkam, emt bijmst, kjl k`hjiwfmlem tbmcr jmml ir bmfp. Cj tbmsm sctuktcijs ct–s capirtkjt ir dmtrkyml aktms ti rmamadmr tbkt tbm kllc`tcvm spiusms sp iusms–– dmbkvcirs krmj–t krmj–t kdiut tbma. \cs cs kdiut dkeekem kj kllc`t bkl dmirm d mirm tbm akrrckem, kjl aist fchmfy tbmsm dmbkvcirs wiufl bkvm dmmj mxbcdctml rmekrlfmss i wbi tbmy akrrcml. Ucff? C jmvmr tbiuebt kdiut drmkhcje liwj kkcrs cjti `ktmeircms. C–vm
kfwkys oust fuapml tbma ujlmr tbm `ktmeiry i dmcje ujkctbuf. Tc`h ? K`tukffy tbm `ktmeircms krm capirtkjt dm`kusm tbmy `kj bmfp clmjtcy
tbm riit pridfma kjl tbm dmst sifutcij ir tbkt pkrtc`ufkr typm i cjlmfcty. Gir cjstkj`m, siamijm cjvifvml cj k ijm-jcebt stkjl ir cj smxukf kllc`tcij wcff emjmrkffy dm d m airm tbkj aitcvktml ti kllrmss tbm pridfma dm`kusm tbmy `krm kdiut tbmcr aktm kjl lij–t lij–t wkjt ti fism tbm akrrckem. Piamijm cj k fcamrkjt rmfktcijsbcp rmfktcijsbcp aky dm airm kadcvkfmjt kadcvkfmjt kdiut tbm t bm akrrckem kjl wcff bkvm tbm tksh i lcs`ijjm`tcje ria tbm kkcr pkrtjmr. Ucff? Cs tbmrm kjitbmr `ktmeiry ir cjlmfcty9 Tc`h ? \m jkf `ktmeiry cs cjkppriprcktm rcmjlsbcps. Kjytcam yiu bkvm
ti put tbm wirl oust wirl oust cj cj rijt i tbm t bm wirl grcmjl wirl grcmjl , tbmrm–s k pridfma. \msm kkcrs dmecj dm`kusm i sbkrml mxpmrcmj`ms. \mrm–s k fit i ippirtujcty jiwklkys. Gir cjstkj`m, pmipfm mjl up dmcje wbkt w bkt C `kff ‖emierkpbc` dk`bmfirs.‑ Uirh tkhms tbma iut ij tbm rikl kjl tbmy mjl up dmcje kfijm aist jcebts kjl ammtcje siamijm mfsm wbi, ir wbktmvmr rmksij, tbmy `kj rmfktm ti. Pi tbm twi lmvmfip k rcmjlsbcp. Ct–s jit tbkt tbmy lij–t `krm kdiut tbmcr aktms“kjl tbmrm aky dm jitbcje wrije wctb mctbmr akrrckem“dut iut i tbmcr iwj jmmlcjmss ir fijmfcjmss . . . Ir tbmy bkvm kj iff`maktm, siamijm tbmy wirh wctb tbkt tbmy rmspm`t kjl jl uj. \my bkvm k ermkt rmfktcijsbcp kt wirh, kjl ct–s kr airm mx`ctcje tbkj wbkt bkppmjs wbmj tbmy emt biam kt tbm mjl i tbm t bm lky. lky. \mj ijm bks ti tkhm `krm i hcls kjl
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`bkjem lckpmrs kjl `fmkj tbm biusm, kjl mvmryijm–s mxbkustml, cj`fulcje tbm spiusm. Pi tbm k`tcvctcms k`t cvctcms tbkt mjmreczm siamijm krm tbism spmjt wctb tbm pmrsij kt wirh, jit tbm `bkffmjecje tcams spmjt kt biam. \ism pmipfm wcff typc`kffy kreum tbkt tbmy–rm ‖oust rcmjls.‑ ‖Um–rm oust rcmjls8 tbmrm–s jitbcje wrije.‑ \cs cs tbm dkscs ir tbm iurtb kjl b `ktmeircms i kkcrs. Cj tbcs sctuktcij, tbmy sbkrm siamtbcje cj `iaaij wctb tbm itbmr pmrsij tbkt tbmy lij–t bkvm wctb tbmcr aktm, su`b ks wirh ir ausc`. Gir tbkt rmksij tbmy dmecj ti sbkrm tbkt kspm`t i tbmcr fcm wctb tbm kkcr pkrtjmr pkrt jmr,, kjl tbm rmst i tbmcr fcm wctb tbmcr aktm. Ubkt tbmj aky bkppmj cs tbkt tbm pirtcij sbkrml wctb tbmcr ‖rcmjl‑ cs airm mjoiykdfm tbkj tbm pirt cij i tbmcr fcm sbkrml wctb tbmcr aktm. \my tmjl ti cjvmst airm mjmrey cj tbcs itbmr rmfktcijsbcp tbkj wctb tbmcr aktm. Mvmjtukffy, Mvmjtukffy, wbmj tbmy jl airm pfmksurm cj tbm rmfktcijsbcp rmfktcijsbcp wctb tbmcr kkcr pkrtjmr, tbmy dmfcmvm ct–s ct–s dm`kusm tbm kkcr pkrtjmr bks airm kdcfcty ti drcje tbma bkppcjmss. \my ivmrvkfum tbkt rmfktcijsbcp kjl ujlmrvkfum tbm t bm akrctkf rmfktcijsbcp. \m pridfma, biwmvmr, biwmvmr, fcms cj tbmcr ujlmrcjvmstamjt cj tbm rmfktcijsbcp kt biam. C tbmy wmrm puttcje ks au`b mjmrey kjl tcam t cam cj tbm rmfktcijsbcp rmfktcijsbcp kt biam ks wctb w ctb tbm iutsclm ‖rcmjl,‑ tbmy–l jl tbm akrctkf rmfktcijsbcp kr airm vkfukdfm. Tmamadmr, Tmamadmr, ijm pmrsij `kj jmvmr ammt kff yiur jmmls. Pi c yiu dmfcmvm yiu–vm eit ti bkvm ct kff cj irlmr ti dm bkppy, tbmj yiu–rm eicje ti bkvm ti emt kjitbmr pmrsij ti ff cj tbm ekp. \mrm bks ti dm k sbc cj i`us. Ay jmmls krm kr dmttmr amt cj trycje ti fivm itbmrs r tbkj cj trycje tr ycje ti emt itbmrs ti fivm am. Ucff? Ct siujls fchm fivcje itbmrs cs tbm fmkst wm jmml ti li. Tc`h ? Cj ay ipcjcij, k lmmpmr pridfma fcms cj wbkt eikf pmipfm smt ir
tbmcr akrrckem rmfktcijsbcp. rmfktcijsbcp. C lij–t lij–t dmfcmvm tbm eikf sbiufl dm kdiut biw tbm itbmr pmrsij akhms am mmf kdiut aysmf. Tktbmr, C dmfcmvm ct–s airm kdiut biw wmff C `kj fivm tbm itbmr pmrsij. Fivcje cs tbm t bm eikf, jit biw wmff ay aktm `kj fivm am ir diist ay smf-cakem. Cj akjy wkys kkcr pkrtjmrs krm fchm acrrirs. \my bmfp us smm iursmfvms tbm wky wm wkjt ti dm smmj. ^sy`bifiecst kjl kutbir Pbcrfmy Efkss lms`rcdms kkcr pkrtjmrs ks k ‖vkjcty acrrir,‑ tbm typm i acrrir yiu fiih cj wbmrm tbm fcebtcje bmfps yiu fiih dmttmr. < Dut akrrckem pkrtjmrs krm
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airm fchm akejcycje akhmup acrrirs, wbc`b rmvmkf k ff tbm fflkws. Ct–s Ct–s kfwkys eicje ti dm tmaptcje ti fiih cj tbm t bm vkjcty acrrir si C `kj mmf dmttmr kdiut aysmf. Ucff? C–vm bmkrl yiu amjtcij cj tbm pkst k Pbcrfmy Efkss kjkfiey kdiut
wkffs kjl wcjliws. = Ubkt cs tbkt kdiut9 Tc`h? Uctb kkcrs tbmrm cs kfwkys sm`rmtcvmjmss si tbm spiusm bks fcttfm
ir ji `fum wbkt–s eicje ij cj tbm kkcr. Kff i tbism sm`rmts krm dmcje sbkrml dmtwmmj tbm ujkctbuf aktm kjl tbm kkcr pkrtjmr. Ct–s k pkrt i tbm lyjkac` tbkt hmmps tbmcr kffckj`m kfcvm. Ct–s ks c tbmrm–s k wkff dfi`hcje tbm dmtrkyml spiusm–s vcmw cjti tbmcr aktm–s mxtrkakrctkf rmfktcijsbcp. Dut tbmrm– tbmrm–s k ijm-wky acrrir cj tbkt wkff tbkt kffiws tbm kkcr pkrtjmr ti smm kff tbm lmtkcfs i tbm t bm akrctkf rmfktcijsbcp. rmfktcijsbcp. = i dmecj tbm pri`mss i rmducflcje trust, tbkt ijm-wky acrrir jmmls ti dm rmvmrsml, wbmrm tbm dmtrkyml spiusm smms cjti tbm kkcr kjl tbm kkcr pkrtjmr–s pkrtjmr–s vcmw i tbm akrrckem cs dfi`hml. Kjswmrcje tbm qumstcijs ir tbm dmtrkyml spiusm (wbc`b wm wcff lmkf wctb cj Ummh 4) cs k wky ti dmecj d mecj tbkt pri`mss. Cj k smjsm ct–s kdiut wbi–s ij tbm cjsclm kjl wbi–s ij tbm iutsclm. Ks fije ks tbm ujkctbuf aktm `ijtcjums ti bifl sm`rmts kdiut tbm kkcr, bm ir sbm akcjtkcjs k `ivmrt kffckj`m wctb tbm kkcr pkrtjmr. Fiykfty cs rmmstkdfcsbml ks tbm dijls i sm`rm`y krm drihmj. Ucff? \mrm–s k fit i tkfh tbmsm lkys kdiut wiamj kjl tbmcr wcffcjejmss ti
bkvm kkcrs. Li yiu tbcjh tbmrm–s kj cj`rmksm cj wiamj cjctcktcje kkcrs iutsclm i tbmcr iwj akrrckems, kjl c si, wby9 Krm wiamj `bkjecje9 Tc`h ? Sms, lmjctmfy tbm kstmst-eriwcje pipufktcij i pmipfm bkvcje
kkcrs cs wiamj kems 45 ti 0=. C tbcjh k fit i ct bks ti li wctb t bm kllctcijkf ippirtujctcms prmsmjtml dy tbm wiamj–s aivmamjt. Amj kjl wiamj trkvmf tiemtbmr kjl wirh tiemtbmr. Amlck pirtrkys tbm wbifm efiry i bkvcje tbism kkcrs. Lmspmrktm Biusmwcvms . Biusmwcvms . . . Ucff? Pmx kjl tbm @cty . . . . Tc`h ? Pmx kjl tbm @cty . Mxk`tfy. Iur amlck pirtrkys rmkf wiamj cj tbkt
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fcebt, kjl c yiu–rm jit tbkt typm i pmrsij, tbmj siambiw yiu–rm jit k rmkf wiakj. Pi C tbcjh tbm wky wiamj krm pirtrkyml mj`iurkems mxtrkakrctkf kkcrs. Ucff? Cs tbmrm k kcfurm ij amj–s pkrts cj akrrckem tbkt cs fmklcje airm
wiamj cjti kkcrs9 Um–rm tii dusy, wm–rm lcstrk`tml, wbktmvmr9 Tc`h ? C tbcjh ditb pkrtcms tmjl ti acsujlmrstkjl wbkt akrrckem cs
kdiut. C wm fiih ti akrrckem ti dm tbm siur`m i iur bkppcjmss, bkppcjmss, tbmj tbm pridkdcfcty i kkcrs i``urrcje cs bceb. Iur `ufturm bks `iam ti dmfcmvm tbkt akrrckem cs tbm pfk`m wbmrm wm–rm wm–rm suppisml ti emt iur jmmls amt. C bmkrl siamijm sky ij`m, ‖Siu dmttmr akhm surm tbm bkt biih `kj bifl tbm wmcebt i tbm bkt dmirm yiu bkje ct.‑ Cj tilky–s wirfl wm put kr tii akjy lmakjls ij tbm cjstctutcij i akrrckem. Cj pkst tcams t cams ct wks kfaist k jm`msscty ir survcvkf. Fcm Fc m wks bkrl kjl busdkjls kjl wcvms wmrm kr airm lmpmjlmjt ij k lcvcscij i fkdir ti emt dy. ilky akrrckem cs kr fmss kdiut survcvkf kjl airm kdiut k `bic`m. Akrrckem cs ji fijemr k jm`msscty8 jiw wm fiih ir ct ti ecvm us fcm. Um Um fiih ti akrrckem ti ammt kff k ff i iur jmmls ir fivm, mx`ctmamjt, rcmjlsbcp, cjtcak`y, mritc`csa, mjtmrtkcjamjt, vkfclktcij, kffraktcij, kffraktcij, stkdcfcty, stkdcfcty, kjl sm`urcty. sm`urcty. Biwmvmr, Biwmvmr, ct–s lcff`uft ir ijm rmfktcijsbcp rmfktcijsbcp ti ammt kff tbism rmqucrmamjts. Kllctcijkffy, Kllctcijkffy, wctb tbm `bkjecje rifms ir amj kjl wiamj, tbmrm–s `ijuscij kdiut wbi–s rmspijscdfm ir wbkt. Ijm tbcje wm hjiw ir surm“iur aktm–s lmjctmfy jit `krrycje tbm kcr sbkrm i tbm fikl. Ir kt fmkst tbkt–s tbm pmr`mptcij i akjy cj akrrckems tilky. Ucff? Lims k pmrsij–s airkf stkjlcje ir rmfcecius cj`fcjktcij lc`tktm
biw bm ir sbm rmspijls ti cjlmfcty cj tbm akrrckem“tbmcr iwj ir tbmcr spiusm–s9 Tc`h ? Kdsifutmfy. ^mipfm wctb k strije airkf `iapkss krm airm tmaptml
kjl tbmrmirm airm fchmfy ti bkvm kkcrs. Ucff? Tmkffy9 ^mipfm wbi bkvm k strije airkf dkscs tmjl ti bkvm airm
kkcrs tbkj pmipfm wbi lij–t9 \kt smmas dk`hwkrl. Mxpfkcj tbkt ti am.
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ti li, si tbm airm strijefy yiu dmfcmvm ct–s wrije, tbm airm piwmruf tbm lrkw ti tbkt dmbkvcir. d mbkvcir. Sms, Sms, ct–s `iujtmrcjtuctcvm, dut siamijm–s cjvifvmamjt cj `bur`b ir siam rmfcecius cjstctutcij cj ji wky prm`fulms tbma ria dmcje ujkctbuf, kjl cj siam wkys ct akhms ct airm lcff`uft ti stky kctbuf. Dy tbm wky, ay kctb kjl `ijvc`tcijs krm vmry capirtkjt ti am, si C–a jit skycje tbkt tbm sifutcij ti lmfcty cs airkf rmfktcvcsa. Ucff? Wmry Wmry cjtmrmstcje. Cs tbmrm kjytbcje eiil kdiut kj kkcr9 Cs tbmrm
kjytbcje tbkt k `iupfm `kj ei tbriueb cj kj kkcr kjl sky, ‖Siu hjiw, tbcs bks k`tukffy dmmj rmkffy eiil ir iur akrrckem‑9 C–vm C–vm k`tukffy bmkrl psy`bifiecsts sky tbkt tbm dmst tbcje yiu `kj li ir yiur akrrckem cs bkvm kj kkcr. Tc`h ? Ji. \m dmst tbcje yiu `kj li ir yiur akrrckem cs jit ti ti bkvm kj
kkcr. kkcr. \ism krm twi lcmrmjt qumstcijs. @kj kjytbcje eiil `iam ria kj kkcr9 Kdsifutmfy Kdsifutmfy. \m dmst akrrckems C hjiw bkvm k`tukffy `iam tbriueb t briueb kj kkcr. Ucff? Dut yiu skcl dmirm tbkt ct–s dmst jit ti. Jiw ct siujls fchm yiu–rm
skycje, ‖Bmy, c yiu wkjt ti strmjetbmj yiur akrrckem, bkvm kj kkcr.‑ Tc`h ? Jit kt kff. Siu lij–t wkjt ti bkvm kj kkcr ti strmjetbmj yiur akr-
rckem. C yiu bkvm kj kkcr, ct rcps tbm vmry vmr y kdrc` i yiur dmcje, kjl siam pmipfm krm jmvmr kdfm ti rm`ivmr ria tbkt wiujl. Biwmvmr, tbism kdfm ti wirh tbriueb cjlmfcty“wbmj ct lims bkppmj, mvmj tbiueb ct jmvmr sbiufl“jl jmw amkjcje, k jmw ujlmrstkjlcje i fivm, k lmmpmr smjsm i `iaactamjt. \my `kj bkvm k pbmjiamjkf akrrckem. Dut, kt tbm skam tcam, wbmj pmipfm `iam up ti tbma cj tbm uturm kjl sky, ‖Akj, wm–l fivm ti bkvm k akrrckem fchm yiurs. Biw li wm emt ct9‑ tbmy–l dm tbm rst ti sky, ‖Siu–l jmvmr wkjt ti ei tbriueb wbkt yiu bkvm ti ei tbriueb ti emt tbcs typm i akrrckem.‑ Iur `ufturm cs k fcttfm dct cjskjm dm`kusm wm–rm kr airm tifmrkjt i lcvir`m tbkj wm krm i akhcje tbm mirt ti skvm k akrrckem kmr k dmtrkykf. \m typc`kf rmspijsm ti cjlmfcty cs kfwkys lcvir`m“‖Umff, oust lcvir`m tbm dua‑“ks c tbkt–s k irmeijm `ij`fuscij. Dut lcvir`m cs k pktb wbmrm
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fcmstyfms krm `iapfmtmfy kftmrml, `bcflrmj krm tbriwj ujlmr tbm dus, kjl amkjcjeuf rmfktcijsbcps krm lmstriyml. lmstriyml. @ijvmrsmfy, @ijvmrsmfy, tbmrm krm wkys ti emt ivmr cjlmfcty kjl lmvmfip tbm t bm rmfktcijsbcp yiu–vm kfwkys wkjtml. C–a jit acjcaczcje cjlmfcty8 ct–s k birrcdfm tbcje. C–a `mrtkcjfy jit skycje tbkt t bkt cjlmfcty cj kjy wky cs ihky8 ct–s ct–s jit. Ptcff, wby wm tbcjh lcvir`m cs k dmttmr kftmrjktcvm tbkj trycje ti wirh tbriueb kj cjlmfcty pmrpfmxms pmr pfmxms am. Ucff? Ubkt krm cjlc`ktirs i k `iupfm–s kdcfcty ti su``mssuffy aivm dmyijl
kj kkcr9 Tc`h? Gcrst cs rmspijscdcfcty. rmspijscdcfcty. C tbm ujkctbuf pkrtjmr kcfs ti tkhm rmspij-
scdcfcty kjl cs lmmjscvm, tbmj ct–s lcff`uft ir tbm `iupfm ti mvmj emt ij tbm rcebt trk`h. C kff tbmy li cs dfkam tbmcr aktm ir tbm dmtrkykf, tbmj tbmcr lmjckf i kjy rmspijscdcfcty rmspijscdcfcty wcff prmvmjt tbma ria mvmr dmcje k skm pkrtjmr kekcj. Uctbiut Uctbiut siamijm tkhcje rmspijscdcfcty, rmspijscdcfcty, tbmrm `kj jmvmr dm k dmbkvcir `bkjem. Pm`ijl cs mapktby. mapktby. \m dmtrkyml spiusm bks ti mmf tbkt tbm ujkctbuf spiusm jit ijfy ujlmrstkjls tbm pkcj bm ir sbm bks `kusml dut kfsi cs ercmvml ivmr tbm capk`t tbcs bks bkl ij tbm dmtrkyml spiusm. Akrctkf bcstiry cs k tbcrl cjlc`ktir. cjlc`ktir. C ditb i tbma `kj clmjtcy k smksij cj tbm akrrckem wbmrm tbmy lcl wmff ks k `iupfm, tbmj tbm pridkdcfcty i tbmcr dmcje kdfm ti rm`ij`cfm cj`rmksms. \cs pisctcvm bcstiry ecvms tbma k picjt i bipm ti ducfl ria. \my hjiw tbkt siamtbcje pisctcvm dmtwmmj tbm twi i tbma cs pisscdfm. p isscdfm. Biwmvmr, iut i tbmsm tbrmm cjlc`ktirs, mapktby cs juadmr ijm, kjl dmcje kdfm ti tkhm rmspijscdcfcty kjl tkhcje k`tcij ti akhm tbm rmfktcijsbcp skm cs juadmr twi. Ucff? Ubkt krm siam jmektcvm cjlc`ktirs ti k akrrckem survcvcje cjlmfcty9 Tc`h ? C kj kkcr i``urs mkrfcmr cj k akrrckem, ct–s pitmjtckffy airm lkake-
cje, kjl tbm su``mss rktm cs fiwmr c tbm wiakj cs tbm ujkctbuf pkrtjmr. Ucff? Dm`kusm9
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Tc`h ? Ks k wbifm, C tbcjh amj bkvm airm triudfm irecvcje. Cj siam wkys,
C tbcjh tbmy bkvm airm triudfm aivcje dmyijl tbmcr aks`ufcjm wiujl. Kfsi, amj tmjl ti `iapkrtamjtkfczm airm, kjl rmqumjtfy mvmj tbiueb tbmy aky dm bkvcje kj kkcr, tbmy stcff wkjt ti dm d m akrrcml. Ubmj wiamj bkvm kkcrs, tbmy krm airm fchmfy ti mmf tbmy krm lijm wctb tbm akrrckem. Imj tbm wiakj wcff spmjl ymkrs `iapfkcjcje kdiut tbm fk`h i `ijjm`tcij, kjl tbm akj wcff rmusm ti rmspijl. Ubmj sbm jkffy qucts `iapfkcjcje, bm akhms tbm acstkhm i tbcjhcje tbcjes aust bkvm eittmj dmttmr, dmttmr, wbmj cj rmkfcty sbm cs lycje ij tbm vcjm. Uiamj Uiamj tmjl ti lcs`ijjm`t ria tbm akrrckem dmirm tbmy rm`ijjm`t cj kj kkcr. Ucff? Li yiu tbcjh t bcjh spiusms krm ir`ml cjti kkcrs dy tbmcr aktms9 Amkj-
cje, cs ct kfwkys tbm spiusm–s kuft9 Tc`h ? Cjlmfcty cs jmvmr tbm tbm spiusm– spiusm–s kuft. @mrtkcjfy @mrt kcjfy tbmrm aky dm smrcius
akrctkf cssums kjl k spiusm aky dm lcff`uft ti fcvm wctb, dut kj ujkctbuf spiusm `biisms tbm lkakecje `iursm i kj kkcr ir lmkfcje wctb tbm pridfmas. \mrm krm kr airm prilu`tcvm wkys ti lmkf wctb akrctkf cssums tbkj kj kkcr. Ucff? Pi c C–a akrrcml ti tbm Uc`hml Uct`b i tbm Umst, C–a jit oustcml
cj bkvcje kj kkcr9 Tc`h ? Ji! Ucff? Mvmj tbiueb ay rcmjls sky, ‖Fiih, Ok`h, yiu `kj li dmttmr. Ei iut
kjl . . . Siu lmsmrvm tbcs. Siu lmsmrvm dmttmr, ei emt ct.‑ Tc`h ? Kviclcje tbm pridfma dy bkvcje kj kkcr cs jmvmr k fivcje ir akturm
sifutcij. @ijrijt tbm cssums cj tbm akrrckem rktbmr tbkj kviclcje tbma. Ir c yiu lij–t wkjt tbm akrrckem, kt fmkst bkvm tbm `iurkem ti mxprmss wbmrm yiu–rm kt, dut lij–t ei drmkhcje yiur viws. Siu aky vmry wmff jl tbkt yiur bijmsty kdiut yiur lcs`ijtmjtmljmss aky drcje kdiut tbm `bkjem yiu–vm yiu–vm dmmj wkjtcje. Ucff? C C–a acsmrkdfm cj ay akrrckem, cs lcvir`m cs dmttmr tbkj cjlmfcty9
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Siu–rm jit `ijlijcje lcvir`m9 Tc`h ? Ji. Gcrst i, yiu–rm akhcje k buem kssuaptcij tbkt tbmrm–s siam-
tbcje wrije c C–a acsmrkdfm acsmrkdfm cj ay akrrckem. Kff akrrckems ei tbriueb smksijs wbmrm tbm pkrtjmrs `kj dm acsmrkdfm. \mrm krm tcams tbkt fcm lmkfs us k bkjl i acsmry. Ucff? Uby wiufl kj kkcr bkppmj cj k eiil akrrckem9 Tc`h ? Kkcrs krm jit kdiut dkl akrrckems8 tbmy–rm kdiut dkl `bic`ms.
Piamtcams ijm pkrtjmr wcff `mrtkcjfy mmf tbmy bkvm k eiil akrrckem, dut tbm pkrtjmr bks kcfml ti `iaaujc`ktm bcs ir bmr lcssktcsk`tcij, ir aky bkvm mxprmssml lcssktcsk`tcij, dut tbm pkrtjmr kcfml ti fcstmj. Mctbmr wky, wky, ij`m tbm kkcr dmecjs, typc`kffy tbm ujkctbuf spiusm wcff dmecj rmwrctcje tbm akrctkf bcstiry ti bmfp oustcy bcs ir bmr k`tcijs. Piamtcams kkcrs i``ur iut i `krmfmssjmss. Kff ct tkhms cs puttcje ijmsmf cj k bceb-rcsh bce b-rcsh sctuktcij kjl tmaptktcij cs trceemrml. Ct–s Ct–s jit tbkt tbm t bm ujkctbuf spiusm lclj–t lclj–t fchm tbm akrrckem ir `krm kdiut tbm aktm, dut jiw tbmrm–s siamijm mfsm bm ir sbm cs rmkffy kttrk`tml ti. \my dmecj ti sbkrm siamtbcje cj `iaaij wctb tbm t bm kkcr pkrtjmr tbkt tbmy lij–t lij–t bkvm wctb tbm aktm. Kt tbkt picjt, tbm ujkctbuf spiusm dmecjs ti oustcy bkvcje tbm kkcr. Ucff? Li kkcrs kfwkys cjvifvm smx9 Tc`h ? Piamtcams tbmy–rm kff kdiut smx. Pbcrfmy Efkss–s rmsmkr`b rmvmkfml
tbkt << pmr`mjt p mr`mjt i amj rmpirtml sfcebt ir ji maitcijkf cjvifvmamjt8 cjvifvmamjt8 ijfy ;; pmr`mjt i wiamj rmpirtml tbm skam. = Gir wiamj tbm rmfktcijsbcps smma ti dm prmliacjkjtfy kdiut fivm. Tmekrlcje smx, ijm tbcje–s ir surm“irkf smx cs kfwkys kdiut smx. Grmqumjtfy k aktm wcff dm airm lcsturdml kdiut irkf smx tbkj kdiut cjtmr`iursm dm`kusm ct smmas kr airm cjtcaktm. Ucff? Ihky. Fmt–s puff tbm sbriul dk`h kjl tkhm am ti tbkt aiamjt wbmj
spiusm K tmffs spiusm D tbkt bm ir sbm bks dmmj ujkctbuf. Ubkt cs tbm pkrt tbkt tbm amlck limsj–t limsj–t tmff us9 Lms`rcdm tbm lmvkstktcij i tbkt aiamjt,
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typc`kffy, typc`kffy, wbmj spiusm D, wbi cs dmcje d mcje kctbuf, jls iut spiusm K cs dmcje ujkctbuf. Ubkt–s tbm lkakem9 Tc`h ? Umff, cjlmfcty `rmktms k pkcj fchm ji itbmr. Lmktb cs mkscmr tbkj
cjlmfcty, cjlmfcty, dmfcmvm ct ir jit. Dmtrkykf pmjmtrktms ti tbm mssmj`m i clmjtcty. clmjtcty. Ct kfsi lmstriys ijm–s ujlmrstkjlcje i tbm `iupfm–s fcm bcstiry“mvmrytbcje bm ir sbm dmfcmvml kdiut tbm rmfktcijsbcp bks jiw dmmj lmstriyml wctb tbm lcs`ivmry i tbm kkcr. kkcr. Ucff? Ubkt yiu tbiuebt wks rmkf cs jit rmkf. Tc`h ? Mxk`tfy. Ct–s jit rmkf. \mrmirm ijm i tbm prcakry tkshs cj k `iupfm–s
rm`ivmry cs tbm rmwrctcje i tbm akrctkf bcstiry. ]jtcf tbm `iupfm `kj `iam ti k oicjt o icjt ujlmrstkjlcje i wbkt bks bkppmjml cj tbm akrrckem, ct–s ct–s kfaist capisscdfm ir tbma ti aivm ij. Ucff? Limsj–t tbkt kreum ir jit tmffcje9 Puppism yiu–vm eit k pmrsij
rmklcje tbcs krtc`fm kjl tbmy–rm eicje, ‖Fiih, yiur rcmjls krm skycje yiu amssml up. Ct wks k ijm-jcebt stkjl. Siu–rm eicje ti hcff yiur wcm c yiu tmff bmr tbcs. Lij–t tmff bmr. Oust hmmp ct ti yiursmf8 sbm–s dmttmr i jit hjiwcje.‑ Tc`h ? Ji, yiu–rm kfwkys dmttmr i tmffcje. Ucff? Uby9 Tc`h ? Umff, C wij–t sky kfwkys, dut tbm mx`mptcijs krm ijfy kdiut = pmr`mjt.
Tmamadmr tbkt cjtcak`y cs tbm kdcfcty ti hjiw kjl ti dm hjiwj. Cjlmfcty cs tbm hmmpcje i sm`rmts. Pi c yiu bkvm kj kkcr kjl yiu–vm ecvmj k pkrt i yiursmf kwky, k `iupfm i tbcjes bkppmj. Gcrst, yiu cjbcdct yiur kdcfcty ti rmkffy dm hjiwj dy yiur aktm. \mrm–s kfwkys k lcs`ijjm`t, k lcstkj`m. Kjl C priacsm yiu, tbm dmtrkyml spiusm `mrtkcjfy cs kwkrm i tbkt. Siu rid yiursmf i mvmr rmkffy dmcje fivml. Siu `kj jmvmr dm fivml uj`ijlctcijkffy ks fije ks yiu ijfy `ijlctcijkffy fmt yiur aktm hjiw wbi yiu krm. Pm`ijl, yiu rid tbm dmtrkyml spiusm i tbm kdcfcty ti akhm k `bic`m. Uby sbiufl yiu `ijtrif yiur aktm dy tbm ffliw i cjiraktcij9 \kt–s
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jit kcr. Kt fmkst ecvm yiur aktm kj ippirtujcty ti lm`clm wbkt bm ir sbm wiufl fchm. Siur `bkj`ms ir k amkjcjeuf rmfktcijsbcp ei up kt tbkt picjt. Ucff? Pi, cj dcdfc`kf fkjeukem, dmcje bijmst kdiut tbm kkcr cs wkfhcje cj
tbm fcebt, ir `iacje cjti tbm fcebt. 7 Tc`h ? Sms, drcjecje fcebt ti yiur rmkfcty. Dm`kusm kjytbcje sbirt i tbkt
rids yiu i smf-rmspm`t kjl cjtmercty. Pklfy, aist pmipfm bkvcje kkcrs lij–t lij–t dmfcmvm tbkt tbmy `iufl rmkffy dm fivml c pmipfm p mipfm hjmw wbi tbmy rmkffy wmrm. Ucff? Ubkt krm tbm stktcstc`kf `bkj`ms i tbm akrrckem survcvcje kmr dm-
trkykf, kjl wbkt bks ti bkppmj ir tbm akrrckem ti akhm ct9 Tc`h ? Iur mxpmrcmj`m (dksml ij rmsmkr`b `ijlu`tml dy Kkcr Tm`ivmry
cj 4>;>) cs siamwbmrm dmtwmmj 2= kjl 3> pmr`mjt survcvm c tbmy tkhm tbm tcam kjl mirt ti wirh kt ct. Ucff? Biw fije lims tbkt pri`mss typc`kffy tkhm9 t khm9 Tc`h ? \m rmpmr`usscijs smma ti fkst ir ;2 ti 4< aijtbs. 5 Biwmvmr, tbcjes
krmj–t dkl ir kff ;2 aijtbs. Cj k`t, usukffy ir rmqumjtfy, kt tbm mjl i 3> lkys, `iupfms wcff rmpirt bkvcje k kr dmttmr akrrckem tbkj mvmr dmirm. \m cjstkdcfcty `rmktml dy tbm cjlmfcty, biwmvmr, `ijtcjums ir aijtbs. Ct–s capisscdfm ir mctbmr pkrty ti `ijtrif tbm rmacjlmrs kjl tbm trkuak tbism mvmjts `kj trceemr. Ucff? Ubkt `kj k `iupfm mxpm`t cj tbcs ‖jmw jirakf‑9 Ubkt sbiufl tbmy
bipm ir kjl fiih ti, kmr wirhcje tbriueb t briueb tbm bmkfcje iffiwcje kj kkcr9 Tc`h ? ypc`kffy tbmsm `iupfms krm au`b airm cjtcaktm. \my lmvmfip tbm
shcff i dmcje kr airm bijmst kdiut tbmcr mmfcjes, wkjts, kjl lmscrms. Dmirm kj kkcr, tbm `iupfm aky bkvm dmmj ipmrktcje kt kj cjtcak`y fmvmf i ijm ir twi. Kmr tbm kkcr, bipmuffy, tbmy–rm kt k smvmj ir mcebt. Ubc`b cs rmkffy ijm i tbm prcakry dkriamtmrs tbkt kffiws k dmtrkyml spiusm ti
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hjiw bm ir sbm cs skm cj tbm akrrckem. \cs jmw fmvmf i cjtcak`y kffiws tbma ditb ti dm kr airm kttujml c tbmy dmecj ti lrc kpkrt kekcj. Ucff? i tbism wbi aky dm cj kj kkcr, ir `ijsclmrcje bkvcje ijm, wbkt
wiufl yiu sky9 Tc`h ? C wiufl sueemst tbmy tkfh ti tbmcr aktm kdiut tbm mmfcjes tbmy bkvm
kdiut tbcs itbmr pmrsij. Ucff? \my–rm eicje ti sky, ‖Uby cj tbm bm`h wiufl C li tbkt9‑ Tc`h ? Umff, C–l sky, ‖C yiu tbcjh tbmy–l fchm ti hjiw, wby wiuflj–t yiu tmff
tbma9‑ Ucff? ‖Dm`kusm tbmy–ff emt akl. \my–ff \my–f f emt kjery. \my–ff tbriw am iut.
C–a kfsi siamwbkt kttrk`tml ti tbcs pmrsij. p mrsij. C–a jit surm C wkjt ti tmff ay spiusm.‑ Tc`h ? Tcebt. C bkvm i``kscijkffy tifl ay wcm kdiut siamijm C–a kttrk`tml
ti. Cj tbcs fcm wm–rm eicje ti bkvm pmipfm wm–rm kttrk`tml ti. \kt limsj–t amkj C lij–t lij–t `biism ay wcm. Uby cj tbm wirfl wiufl C dm d m tmffcje bmr tbkt t bkt c C wksj–t wksj–t trycje ti pritm`t tbm akrrckem kjl `biism bmr9 Ucff? Siu tbcjh wm sbiufl oust fky ct iut tbmrm kjl tmff tbma9 Tc`h ? Bm`h ymkb, C li, c C wkjt ti stky akrrcml. Gcjlcje siamijm mfsm
kttrk`tcvm csj–t tbm pridfma. \m pridfma `iams ria ecvcje tbkt cjiraktcij piwmr dy hmmpcje ct cj tbm lkrh. Ucff? Pi yiur klvc`m ti siamijm wbi–s pusbcje tbm fcjms i rmfktcijkf kp-
priprcktmjmss priprcktmjmss ir siamijm itbmr tbkj bcs ir bmr aktm cs ti tmff tbm spiusm9 Tc`h ? Kdsifutmfy Kdsifutm fy.. Ucff? Cs tbmrm k pfkj D9 Cs tbmrm kjitbmr . . . 9
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Tc`h ? Mvmrydily wkjts k pfkj D dm`kusm wm lij–t lij–t rmkffy wkjt ti dm hjiwj.
Um–rm tii krkcl i dmcje k lcskppicjtamjt. Ucff? Gir tbism i us wbi lij–t rmkffy wkjt cjtcak`y, wbkt–s tbm sm`ijl
iptcij9 Tc`h ? Kt tbm vmry fmkst, mxpism yiur cjlmfcty ti k rcmjl wbi `krms kdiut
yiu. C yiu lij–t, ct wcff ruaakem kriujl cj yiur bmkrt ujtcf mxpisml. Siu–ff jmvmr ekcj pmrspm`tcvm ujtcf yiu drcje ct ti tbm fcebt. Gujjy tbcje, biw kj kttrk`tcij lm`rmksms ij`m ct–s driuebt cjti tbm fcebt. Grmqumjtfy C–ff bmkr siamijm cj ay `iujsmfcje iff`m sky, ‖C wcsb ay aktm ijfy bkl myms ir am.‑ C kfwkys `iam dk`h skycje, ‖\kt–s `rkzy. Uby wiufl yiu wkjt yiur aktm ti ijfy bkvm myms ir yiu9 C tbkt wmrm tbm `ksm, tbmj tbmy `iufl jmvmr fivm. \my–l \my–l dm jitbcje airm tbkj k puppmt ij k strcje.‑ Ct–s jkturkf ir us ti jitc`m `bkrk`tmrcstc`s cj itbmrs wm jl kppmkfcje ir kttrk`tcvm. \mrm cs ji wky iur aktm `kj pissmss kff tbm qukfctcms wm wkjt, dut k pkrt i fivm cs k``mptcje iur aktm ks tbmy krm, jit ks wm wkjt tbma ti dm. \m lmmpmst fmvmfs i fivm `kj ijfy dm rmvmkfml tbriueb `bic`m. \my–rm \my–rm wcffcje ti sk`rc`m siamtbcje ir siamijm mfsm oust ir tbm `bkj`m ti dm wctb yiu. Fivm cs dmst rmvmkfml tbriueb k wcffcjejmss ti sumr ir tbm ippirtujcty ti dm wctb yiu. @bic`m cs jit k mmfcje. Kt tcams C mvmj akhm tbkt `bic`m cj spctm i ay mmfcje. C lij–t lij–t `ijtrif ay maitcijkf rmk`tcijs8 dut fivm ecvmj, mvmj wbmj ct–s bkrl, bks kr airm vkfum tbkj kj ivmrwbmfacje mmfcje. Ucff? Mvmj tbiueb klacttcje su`b k mmfcje cs eicje ti prilu`m siam
`bkis9 Tc`h ? Cjtcak`y cs tbm kdcfcty ti dm hjiwj, rmamadmr9 Ubkt wm lij–t ujlmr-
stkjl cj akrrckem cs tbkt cjtcak`y cj akrrckem kfaist kfwkys `rmktms sbirttmra cjstkdcfcty, cjstkdcfcty, dut cj tbm t bm fije ruj ct `rmktms kj kakzcje dijl. Ucff? Pi, tbm `iupfm tbkt–s drmkhcje up tilky kacl tbm jcebtakrm i k jmw-
fy rmvmkfml kkcr, wbkt li yiu sky ti tbma9
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Tc`h ? Pmt yiur acjl kjl yiur eikfs iut cj tbm uturm. Lij–t fiih kt wbkt–s
bkppmjcje cj kjy ecvmj aiamjt i tbm sctuktcij. \mrm cs su`b cjstkdcfcty wbmj tbcjes rst `iam iut, ct–s up kjl liwj kjl kff kriujl. \m cjtmjsm fmvmf i pkcj `kj `kusm ujdmfcmvkdfm rmk`tcijs. Kt tcams yiu–rm yiu–rm emttcje lcvir`ml, kjl cj tbm jmxt aiamjt yiu–rm yiu–rm biflcje mk`b itbmr kjl `rycje. `r ycje. Ucff? Lij–t akhm lm`cscijs kriujl tbkt mkrfy tcam kmr tbm kkcr cs lcs`iv-
mrml9 Tc`h ? Siu lij–t akhm lm`cscijs kt tbkt picjt. Siu bkje ij ir kt fmkst 3>
lkys. C rm`iaamjl tbkt pmipfm wkct ;2 aijtbs dmirm tbmy akhm k jkf lm`cscij kdiut stkycje cj tbm akrrckem. Ubkt yiu mmf fchm licje `kj `bkjem 4> tcams cj k lky. Ucff? Cs tbmrm k lcmrmj`m, Tc`h, dmtwmmj tbm wky amj kjl wiamj rm-
spijl ti kkcrs9 Tc`h ? Ct–s k dct i kj ivmremjmrkfczktcij, dut amj tmjl ti `iapkrtamjtkfczm
kjl try ti kvicl ct, wbcfm wiamj jmml ti pri`mss wbkt bks bkppmjml. ypc`kffy wiamj lmkf wctb tbm trkuak i tbm kkcr dy tkfhcje kdiut ct k tbiuskjl tcams. Ct–s ks c sbm jmmls ti tiu`b tbkt wiujl ivmr kjl ivmr kekcj ujtcf sbm limsj–t emt kj maitcijkf oift wbmj sbm tkfhs kdiut ct. Ubmj amj kcf ti ujlmrstkjl tbcs, ct `rmktms k rmkf pridfma. Ubmj tbmcr wcm drcjes ct up ivmr kjl ivmr, amj rmqumjtfy dmecj ti dmfcmvm tbmcr aktm cs oust trycje ti pujcsb tbma. \mcr kttctulm smmas ti dm, ‖@kj–t wm oust aivm ij9 C–vm kfrmkly tifl yiu C wks sirry.‑ Dut wbmj tbm ujkctbuf spiusm tmffs tbmcr aktm ti emt ivmr ct, kff tbmy krm rmkffy `iaaujc`ktcje cs tbkt tbmcr lcs`iairt wctb tbm tipc` cs airm capirtkjt tbkj tbmcr aktm–s pkcj. K rmkf pridfma `kj bkppmj wbmj yiu bkvm k aktm wbism wcm bks dmmj ujkctbuf. Bm limsj–t limsj–t wkjt ti lmkf wctb tbm pkcj, si bm oust trcms ti stu ct kjl aivm ij. \m wiakj–s kpprik`b i pri`msscje tbm pkcj cs k`tukffy bmkftbcmr. bmkftbcmr. Ucff? Pbm–s rmkffy oust trycje ti bmkf9 Tc`h ? Sms. C fcstmjml ti k wiakj `iapfkcjcje kdiut bmr busdkjl oust tbm
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itbmr lky. ‖Uby `kj–t yiu emt ivmr ct9 Siu–vm bkl twi aijtbs,‑ bm hmpt tmffcje bmr. Piambiw bm–s ireittmj tbkt bm–s dmmj ujkctbuf ir ;= ymkrs. Pbm–s eit ;= ymkrs i bcstiry ti wirh tbriueb kjl emt bmr acjl kriujl. ]jtcf sbm `kj akhm smjsm i wbkt bkppmjml, ct wcff dm lcff`uft ir bmr ti aivm ij ti tbm jmxt stkem. Ucff? Uby li amj bkvm kkcrs9 Siu tmjl ti kssi`cktm kkcr dmbkvcir wctb
amj kjl yiu tmjl ti kssi`cktm ct wctb smx. Ubkt–s tbm rmkf rmksij tbkt euys bkvm kkcrs9 Tc`h ? Kekcj, ct–s pridkdfy k fit airm `iapfc`ktml tbkj ijm scapfm rmksij.
Kkcrs krm fchm lrues kjl bkvm tbm kdcfcty ti rmkffy kftmr ijm–s stktm i acjl. Kkcrs krm dksml ij riakjtc`csa, wbc`b cs twi pmipfm wkjtcje wbkt tbmy lij–t lij–t bkvm kjl dmcje wcffcje ti akhm sk`rc`ms ti emt ct. Akrrckem cs dksml ij ijmjmss, wbc`b cs airm fchm tkhcje twi `kts kjl tycje tbmcr t kcfs tiemtbmr kjl skycje, ‖Jiw, emt kfije.‑ Ct–s kr dmttmr ti wkjt wbkt yiu lij–t bkvm tbkj ti bkvm wbi yiu lij–t wkjt. Ubmj siamijm emts cjvifvml cj kj kkcr, kcr, tbmy bkvm kjitbmr pkrty wbi– wbi–s fchm k acrrir ti tbma, akhcje tbma mmf kdiut tbmasmfvms ks tbmy wkjt ti mmf. \mcr aktm–s acrrir, ij tbm itbmr bkjl, rmfflm`ts tbmcr fflkws. \m kkcr pkrtjmr rmfflm`ts kff i tbmcr eiil trkcts. Tmamadmr Pbcrfmy Efkss–s mkrfcmr mxkapfm tbkt kkcrs krm fchm k vkjcty acrrir.2 \m pmrsijkf rmfflm`tcij yiu emt ria tbkt kkcr pkrtjmr akhms yiu tbcjh yiu–rm yiu–rm k acffcij liffkrs, wbcfm akrrckems krm kr airm fchm tbkt akejcycje acrrir. Siu smm kff tbm fflkws cj tbkt akhmup acrrir. Pi wby wiuflj–t wm rktbmr dm cj rijt i tbkt kkcr pkrtjmr–s vkjcty acrrir tbkj cj rijt i iur spiusm–s akejcycje acrrir9 Ucff? Siu tkfhml kdiut amj dmcje ujlmrcjvmstml kjywky. \mrm krm amj
wbi krm jit puttcje ;>> pmr`mjt cjti tbm akrrckem ti dmecj wctb. Tc`h ? Tcebt. Ucff? Kjl si strkycje wks mkscmr. Cs tbkt rcebt9 Tc`h ? Amj wbi bkvm kkcrs imj lij–t vkfum tbmcr akrrckem ir kacfy
ks bcebfy ks tbmcr wcvms li. C tbmrm krm `bcflrmj, tbm akoircty i wiamj
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aky dm airm cjvmstml cj tbm kacfy tbkj tbmcr aktm. Fmt am kll tbkt oust dm`kusm k wiakj cs cjvmstml cj tbm hcls kjl biusm limsj–t jm`msskrcfy akhm bmr airm cjvmstml cj tbm akrrckem, dut c sbm cs cjvmstcje airm cj tbm kacfy, tbmj sbm–ff tmjl ti pfk`m airm vkfum cj ct tbkj k aktm tbkt bks fcttfm ir jitbcje ti li wctb akrrckem ir kacfy. Grmqumjtfy sbm–s tbm ijm tkhcje `krm i tbm biusm, tkhcje `krm i tbm hcls, licje jkj`ms. Bmr fcm cs dmcje piurml cjti tbkt kacfy. C yiu–vm eit k akj wbi–s piurcje bcs fcm cjti bcs duscjmss, bm–ff tmjl ti bkvm kj kkcr dm`kusm bm–s ujlmrcjvmstml cj tbm akrrckem kjl limsj–t vkfum tbm akrrckem ks au`b ks bm `iufl. Ijm i tbm amtbils i kkcr prmvmjtcij cs ti rmkffy dmecj ti dm airm cjvmstml cj tbm rmfktcijsbcp kjl airm cjvmstml cj tbm akrrckem. Ucff? C siamijm dmfcmvms kj kkcr cs wrije, biw li tbmy oustcy wbkt
tbmy–vm lijm9 Tc`h? K juadmr i lmmjsm am`bkjcsas krm usml ti oustcy kkcrs? rktcijkf-
czktcij, oustc`ktcij, dfkacje, pfkycje tbm vc`tca, ir acjcaczktcij. Kjitbmr ekam akjy pmipfm pfky cs wbkt C `kff ‖airtkf vmrsus vmjckf scjs.‑ scjs.‑ U Umm kff hjiw `iaacttcje k airtkf scj wiufl dm rmkffy dkl, dut c ct–s oust k vmjckf (acjir) scj, tbmj ct–s jit tbkt smrcius. Pi wm ecvm iursmfvms pmracsscij ti li tbm fmssmr dmbkvcirs. Oust tilky C fcstmjml ti C euy ymff kt bcs wcm, ‖C wks oust uscje pristctutms8 ct–s ct–s jit fchm C wks dmktcje yiu.‑ yiu.‑ Cj bcs acjl bm wks k eiil euy ks fije ks bm wksj–t wksj–t dmktcje bmr. bmr. Ubcfm vcsctcje pristctutms acebt dm dkl, ct–s jit ks dkl ks dmktcje yiur aktm. Ucff? Li `iupfms wctb `bcflrmj bkvm k bcebmr rcsh i cjlmfcty tbkj `iupfms
wctbiut `bcflrmj dm`kusm tbm hcls rm`mcvm tbm kttmjtcij kjl i`us tbkt tbm spiusm sbiufl9 Tc`h ? \m rifm pkrmjtcje pfkys cj akrrckem `kj `mrtkcjfy dm k strmssir ij
tbm rmfktcijsbcp, dut rmamadmr, akrctkf pridfmas krm jmvmr tbm `kusm i kj kkcr. Ubcfm `bcflrmj `kj `rmktm k rmfktcijkf vicl, ct–s biw wm ff tbkt vicl tbkt–s tbm pridfma. Kkcrs lurcje prmejkj`y ir cj tbm rst ymkr i k `bcfl–s fcm krm `iaaij. \msm i``ur fkremfy dm`kusm tbmrm–s k lcs`ijjm`tcij tbkt bkppmjs dmtwmmj k busdkjl kjl k wcm ria tbm picjt i `ij`mptcij ujtcf tbm `bcfl cs kdiut ;2 aijtbs ifl, dm`kusm k fit i tbm aitbmr–s aitbmr–s mjmrey cs
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eicje cjti bmr dm`iacje kjl tbmj dmcje k aia ti tbcs t bcs jmw `bcfl wbi jmmls bmr. ^krtc`cpktcje cj tbm `y`fm i fcm cs ijm i Eil–s Eil–s ermktmst ecs. Dut tbm t bm cjtrilu`tcij i k `bcfl rklc`kffy kftmrs k akrrckem. \m `bkjecje jkturm i tbm rmfktcijsbcp `kj `kusm k mmfcje i lcs`ijjm`tcij. \m airm lcs`ijjm`tml, tbm airm vufjmrkdfm k spiusm aky dm ti siamijm privclcje kttmjtcij tbkt–s acsscje cj tbm akrrckem. Ucff? Li yiu tbcjh siam `iupfms pkrmjt kt tbm mxpmjsm i tbm akrrckem9 Tc`h ? Kdsifutmfy. Dut ct limsj–t bkvm ti dm tbkt wky. Akrrckems jmml ti dm
cjtmjtcijkf. \m mjmrey kjl mirt jm`msskry cj rkcscje `bcflrmj scpbijs mjmrey ria tbm akrrckem. Akrrckems krm `iaprcsml `iaprcsml i tbrmm sudsystmas? sudsystmas? (;) tbm akrctkf lykl, tbkt–s tbm busdkjl kjl tbm wcm8 (4) tbm pkrmjtkf lykl, tbkt–s tbm aia kjl lkl8 kjl (0) tbm `bcflrmj–s sudsystma. Uctb `bcflrmj `iams k fit i wirh, kjl mjmrey cs scpbijml iut i tbkt akrctkf lykl cjti tbkt pkrmjtkf lykl. Cj tbm dmecjjcje, `bcflrmj tkhm prcircty, rmsbkpcje rmsbkpcje biw tcam cs spmjt. Au`b fmss kttmjtcij kttmjtcij cs tbmj pkcl ti tbm akrrckem, si tbm akrrckem dmecjs ti ktripby ktripby ivmr tcam. Ucff? C siamijm–s bkl kj kkcr, wbi li tbmy tmff9 Ubkt li tbmy li9 Tc`h ? Ct–s capirtkjt ti bkvm suppirt wbmj lmkfcje wctb tbm sbi`hwkvms
`rmktml dy kj kkcr. C sueemst tbkt ditb pkrtjmrs jmml ti clmjtcy twi ir tbrmm trustml pmipfm wctb wbia ti pri`mss tbmcr sctuktcij. C rm`iaamjl tbkt mk`b i tbmsm `ijlkjts rm`mcvm tbmcr aktm–s Eiil Biusmhmmpcje smkf smkf i kpprivkf. Ct–s bmfpuf, c tbm `iupfm cs eicje ti try ti wirh ij tbm akrrckem, wbmj tbmy kt fmkst hjiw wbi tbmcr aktm cs tkfhcje ti. Bipmuffy ct wcff dm siamijm tbm itbmr pkrty `kj mmf skm kdiut. \my lij–t lij–t jmml ti ei tmffcje kjyijm dmyijl tbkt. Ubi ti tmff cs dksml ij k jmml-ti-hjiw dkscs lurcje tbm rst 0> lkys. \m dmtrkyml spiusm aky dm tmaptml, cj bcs ir bmr pkcj, ti tmff mvmryijm wbi wcff fcstmj, dut tbcs cs k dkl clmk. c lmk. Fktmr tbmy–ff wcsb tbmy t bmy bkl dmmj airm oulc`cius kdiut wbi tbmy tifl. Gcjkffy, Gcjkffy, clmjtcy qukfcml rmsiur`ms ti bmfp k`cfctktm tbm pri`mss. Gcjl k akrrckem-kjl-kacfy tbmrkpcst wbi spm`ckfczms cj tbm trmktamjt i
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cjlmfcty, cjlmfcty, ir ei ijfcjm kjl tkhm klvkjtkem i tbm ijfcjm `iursms kvkcfkdfm. KkcrTm`ivmry.`ia cs k eiil mxkapfm i k `iapkjy imrcje su`b `iursms. \msm rmsiur`ms sbiufl dm kdfm ti euclm tbm pri`mss i rm`ivmry ir tbm t bm `iupfm kjl kfsi caprivm tbm iut`iam. Ucff? Ubkt bks ti bkppmj ir k `iupfm ti uffy rm`ij`cfm9 Tc`h ? \m ujkctbuf aktm jmmls ti klmquktmfy mxprmss mxprmss `ij`mrj ivmr biw
bcs ir bmr k`tcijs capk`tml tbm dmtrkyml aktm. \kt rst stkem i rmvmfktcij `kj dm mxpfiscvm. \my jmml ti rm`iejczm tbcs cs tmapirkry. Ct–s bmfpuf c tbmy–ff oust fmt tbmcr aktm dm kjery. Kffiw tbma tbmcr maitcijs kjl lij–t lij–t try ti sbut tbma liwj oust dm`kusm tbmy krm uj`iairtkdfm uj`iairtkdfm wctb tbm cjtmjscty. Ucff? Csj–t ct rmkffy bkrl ti sct tbmrm kjl tkhm ct9 Tc`h ? Kdsifutmfy. Dut tbmy kfsi jmml ti ujlmrstkjl tbkt tbm rst stkem cs ir
tbmcr aktm“tbm dmtrkyml spiusm“ti ujlmrstkjl wbkt bkppmjml, kjl tbm pmrsij biflcje tbkt cjiraktcij cs tbm ujkctbuf spiusm. \m ujkctbuf pkrtjmr aust rmvmkf tbm lmtkcfs c tbm dmtrkyml d mtrkyml spiusm cs ti `iapfmtm tbm rst stmp. C tbmy krm wcffcje ti dm ipmj kjl kjswmr qumstcijs“ti ecvm tbm cjiraktcij“tbmj tbm pridkdcfcty ir akrctkf su``mss cj`rmksms. Mapktby cs tbm sm`ijl k`tir. k`tir. Krm tbmy wcffcje ti ujlmrstkjl tbmcr aktm–s pkcj kjl kdfm ti `iaaujc`ktm tbkt ujlmrstkjlcje ti tbmcr aktm9 Krm tbmy w cffcje ti akhm tbm `bkjems jm`msskry ti akhm tbm rmfktcijsbcp skm, ti put diujlkrcms cj pfk`m kjl stip lmstru`tcvm dmbkvcirs cj irlmr ti ecvm tbm aktm tbm jm`msskry skmty ti bmkf9 \m `iupfm bks ti `iam ti k `iaaij ujlmrstkjlcje i tbmcr bcstiry. Ct `kj tkhm up ti k ymkr dmirm k `iupfm ujrkvmfs tbm bcstiry kjl amkjcje i kj kkcr. \m dmtrkyml spiusm bks ti ujlmrstkjl wbkt bkppmjml kjl wby, wby, dmirm tbmy `kj mmf tbmrm cs k pktb p ktb ti hmmp ct ria bkppmjcje kekcj. \m dmtrkyml spiusm bks ti wirh tbriueb tbm wbifm kspm`t i ercmvcje tbm fiss i tbm akrrckem kjl rmfktcijsbcp tbmy tbiuebt tbmy bkl. \kt ercmvcje pri`mss, ercmvcje tbkt fiss, `kj tkhm lcmrmjt kaiujts i tcam. Ct–s Ct–s cjlcvclukf8 ct lmpmjls ij tbm pmrsijs cjvifvml. Piam pmipfm ercmvm akl8 siam pmipfm ercmvm skl. \m dmtrkyml spiusm jmmls ti ujlmrstkjl tbkt
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tbmy wcff ercmvm. er cmvm. Kfsi, tbm dmtrkyml spiusm bks ti dm wcffcje ti uftcaktmfy irecvm, ti fmt ei. Tmekrlcje irecvmjmss, ct–s tmrrcdfy capirtkjt tbkt t bkt ditb pkrtcms p krtcms ujlmrstkjl tbkt irecvmjmss cs k ec yiu ecvm yiursmf. Ubmj tbm dmtrkyml spiusm irecvms, tbkt–s tbkt–s ir bcs ir bmr dmjmt. \kt bks jitbcje ti li wctb tbm itbmr pmrsij. Kfsi, oust dm`kusm wm irecvm limsj–t amkj tbkt wm mjtmr dk`h cjti k rmfktcijsbcp. rmfktcijsbcp. Tmfktcijsbcps bkppmj dm`kusm wm `biism ti dm skm. Piambiw wm `biism ti tkhm rmspijscdcfcty kjl akhm tbm akrrckem k pisscdcfcty, pisscdcfcty, wbmrm wm smjsm tbm itbmr pmrsij mvmj wkjts tbkt t bkt rmfktcijsbcp rmfktcijsbcp ij`m kekcj. Gcjkffy, Gcjkffy, kmr tbm kkcr cs `ijtkcjml, tbm dmtrkyml spiusm bks ti dm wcffcje ti mxpfirm tbm itbmr akrctkf cssums kjl tkhm rmspijscdcfcty ir tbm krmks wbmrm bm ir sbm kcfml ti dm fivcje. Ucff? Lims mctbmr pkrty bkvm k bkrlmr oid9 \m pmrsij wbi–s bkl tbm kkcr,
lims bm ir sbm bkvm airm wirh ti li, ir tbm pmrsij wbi–s dmmj vc`tcaczml cj tbm kkcr9 Tc`h? \m dmtrkyml spiusm emjmrkffy bks tbm airm lcff`uft tksh. \m
ujkctbuf aktm imj mmfs ks c k tbiuskjl-piujl wmcebt bks dmmj fcml i tbmcr `bmst ij`m tbmy t bmy `iam `fmkj. @mrtkcjfy kllrmsscje wbkt tbmy–vm t bmy–vm lijm cs capmrktcvm, dut dut dmecjjcje tbm oiurjmy drcjes k rmsb jmwjmss ti fcm ir tbma. Ij tbm itbmr bkjl, tbm dmtrkyml spiusm pridkdfy mmfs ks c k luap tru`h i akjurm wks oust bmkpml ij tbma. \bmcr rmkfcty bks dmmj sbkttmrml kjl tbmy aust lce tbmasmfvms dk`h iut. Uby cj tbm wirfl wiufl tbmy wkjt ti dm wctb siamijm tbkt–s burt tbma fchm tbkt9 K fit ig wirh bks ti bkppmj gir tbma ti emt ti tbkt picjt.
Ucff? Krm tbmrm wkrjcje scejs9 @kj k spiusm dmecj dme cj ti spit scejs i triudfm
cj k akrrckem tbkt acebt fmkl ti kj kkcr9 Tc`h ? C pmrsijkffy dmfcmvm `ijtmapt cs k scej. Ij`m yiu fism rmspm`t ir
yiur aktm kjl dmecj ti lmvkfum tbma, ct–s ct–s ijfy jkturkf ir tbm itbmr pmrsij ti dm tmaptml ti siitbm tbmcr fijmfcjmss. Piam rmsmkr`b smmas ti cjlc`ktm tbkt wiamj bkvcje kkcrs rmqumjtfy bkl spihmj wctb itbmr wiamj bkvcje kkcrs ks k wky i emttcje pmracsscij. C yiu si`ckfczm wctb itbmrs
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bkvcje kkcrs, tbmj tbm pridkdcfcty i kj kkcr cj`rmksms. Gkacfy bcstiry kfsi pfkys k rifm. K bcstiry i kkcrs cj tbm kacfy i ircecj cj`rmksms tbm pridkdcfcty. Kfsi, `ufturm `kj pfky k rifm. Eriwcje up cj k `iujtry wbmrm bkvcje kj kkcr cs k``mptkdfm cs kfsi kj cjlc`ktir. Ucff? Li aitcvktcijs ir bkvcje kj kkcr lcmr dmtwmmj amj kjl wiamj9 Tc`h ? Sms, dut ct–s ijfy k emjmrkfczktcij. Amj `kj bkvm kj kkcr kjl stcff
rmkffy fivm tbmcr aktm. Gir akjy, akjy, tbmcr `ijjm`tcij cs airm pbysc`kf tbkj maitcijkf. Uiamj, ij tbm itbmr bkjl, krm au`b airm cjtmerktml. Ubmj k wiakj bks kj kkcr, typc`kffy sbm bks ti bkvm `iapfmtmfy kffmj iut i fivm wctb bmr aktm. Bmr bmkrt bks ti bkvm kfrmkly lcs`ijjm`tml dmirm sbm wcff rm`ijjm`t cj kjitbmr pfk`m. Aist amj, c tbmy bkvm k pkttmrj i wctblrkwcje, cjtmrprmt tbmcr wcvms– keermsscvm pursuct ir `ijjm`tcij ks jkeecje. Mvmjtukffy c tbmrm–s ji amkjcjeuf mjekemamjt ria bmr aktm, sbm–ff sbm–ff quct `iapfkcjcje `iapfkcjcje kjl ercmvm tbm fiss i bmr rmfktcijsbcp. Bmr maitcijs rmmzm kjl ei juad. Gir bmr ct–s oust tii pkcjuf ti `ijtcjum ti tkhm t khm tbm rcsh i `ijjm`tcje c sbm kfwkys mmfs rmom`tml. Ubi wkjts ti wkjt siamijm c yiu–rm jit wkjtml cj rmturj9 Ubmj tbm `iapfkcjcje stips, bmr bmkrt bks lmtk`bml kjl sbm dm`iams vufjmrkdfm ti siamijm siamijm wbi wcff rmfktcijkffy rmfktcijkffy mjekem. Pbm Pbm emjmrkffy `krrcms lmmp rmsmjtamjt tiwkrl bmr busdkjl tbkt sbm–s dmmj ujkdfm ti rmsifvm. Jiw sbm–s vufjmrkdfm. Kff sbm jmmls cs ippirtujcty, dm`kusm tbm jmml cs `mrtkcjfy tbmrm. Pbm–s Pbm–s ecvmj up ij tbm k`t tbkt bmr busdkjl wcff ecvm bmr fivm kjl rmspm`t. Ucff? Ubkt sbiufl pmipfm fmkrj ks k rmsuft i kj kkcr9 Jit ti mx`usm kjy
i tbm lkakem ir cj kjy wky ti sky tbm amkjs oustcms tbm mjl. Tc`h ? Kkcrs imj smrvm ks k `bkj`m ir pmipfm ti dm lcmrmjt, ti smm
tbmasmfvms lcmrmjtfy, lcmrmjtfy, ti strmt`b kjl eriw kjl ti try tr y jmw tbcjes. Ivmr tbm ymkrs, akrrckems `kj emt stu`h cj k rut kjl pmipfm aky `ut i pkrt i wbi tbmy krm dm`kusm i tbmcr riutcjm. Cj akrrckems wm tmjl ti smm iur aktm tbriueb k bcstirc`kf fmjs. Um lij–t oust smm tbma ks tbmy krm tilky8 wm stcff smm tbma ks tbmy wmrm wbmj wm rst eit akrrcml, dut ivmr tcam tbmy akturml kjl ermw airm `kpkdfm. \m kkcr pkrtjmr smms tbma ir
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wbkt tbmy–vm dm`iam, jit wbkt tbmy ij`m wmrm. Dmcje smmj tbriueb jmw myms jit ijfy k`cfctktms tbma mmfcje dmttmr kdiut tbmasmfvms, dut ct tmjls ti lrkw iut dmbkvcirs kssi`cktml wctb tbm jmw kjl caprivml vmrscij i tbmasmfvms. C tbmy wmrm kdfm ti drcje tbcs jmw kjl caprivml vmrscij vmrscij i tbmasmfvms cjti tbm akrrckem, tbmcr aktm wiufl dm tbrcffml. Dut cj tbmcr acjl tbmy krm stu`h8 tbmy `kj–t `kj–t mvmj smm biw tbmy `iufl dm tbcs pmrsij wctbcj tbm akrrckem. Akjy cs tbm tcam t cam tbkt C–vm trmktml k wiakj wbi wks smxukffy cjbcdctml cj bmr akrrckem, wbi bks ji prcir smxukf mxpmrcmj`m d mirm bmr akrrckem, dut cj kj kkcr lcs`ivmrml kspm`ts i bmr smxukfcty sbm lclj–t lclj–t hjiw mxcstml. (Dy tbm wky, tbcs csj–t bmr aktm–s kuft8 tbmy oust wmrmj–t kdfm ti fmkrj ti smm tbmasmfvms ir tbmcr aktm lcmrmjtfy.) lcmrmjtfy.) Cj rmkfcty bmr akrrckem `iufl dmjmt ria bmr jmwiujl rmmlia c sbm `iufl drcje tbkt cjti tbm akrrckem dml. Ucff? Biw li yiu bmfp tbma ti li tbcs9 Tc`h? Kmr kj kkcr, yiu–vm eit ti fmkrj ti ksh tbm rcebt qumstcijs. Aist
pmipfm wkjt ti li k `iapkrktcvm kjkfyscs dmtwmmj tbm kkcr pkrtjmr kjl tbmasmfvms. ‖Uks tbm itbmr wiakj airm kttrk`tcvm9‑ ‖Ubkt lcl yiu fchm kdiut bca dmttmr9‑ ‖Lcl sbm bkvm dceemr drmksts9‑ ‖Lcl bm bkvm k dceemr pmjcs9‑ \ism qumstcijs uftcaktmfy smrvm fcttfm ir ji dmjmt cj bmfpcje ti rm`ij`cfm k rmfktcijsbcp. C kfwkys ksh qumstcijs i tbm ujkctbuf spiusm? ‖Biw wmrm yiu lcmrmjt lcmrmjt cj tbm itbmr rmfktcijsbcp9‑ rmfktcijsbcp9‑ ‖Biw lcl yiu mxprmss km`tcij ti tbm kkcr pkrtp krtjmr. Biw lcl yiu mxprmss km`tcij ti yiur aktm9‑ Kjl, ‖@ijsclmrcje tbm wky tbkt yiu wmrm cj tbkt itbmr rmfktcijsbcp, rmfktcijsbcp, wbkt wiufl yiu fchm ti drcje dk`h si tbkt yiu `kj dm tbm pmrsij yiu wkjt ti dm cj yiur prcakry rmfktcijsbcp9 Biw `kj wm istmr tbkt pkrt i yiu cj tbcs rmfktcijsbcp9‑ rmfktcijsbcp9‑ Ijm `fcmjt, wbmj k`ml wctb tbism qumstcijs, stktml tbkt cj tbm akrrckem bm wks oust k si``mr lkl lrcvcje k acjcvkj, dut cj tbm kkcr bm wks Guj Achm. Bm skcl ks si``mr lkl, fcm wks luff kjl `iaaijpfk`m, dut ks Guj Achm, bm driuebt oiy kjl fcm ti itbmrs. Bm wks jkffy kdfm ti smm tbkt bm wks tbm `iaaij lmjiacjktir lmjiacjktir kjl fmkrjml biw ti drcje Guj Achm dk`h cjti bcs akrrckem. Dmfcmvm ct ir jit, bcs wcm wks m`stktc` ti bkvm k jmw akj tbkt wks uff i fcm. Ct wks au`b airm mjoiykdfm ir bmr ti dm
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akrrcml ti k uj euy tbkj t bkj k luff euy. Ucff? \kt–s jit kt kff wbkt C tbiuebt yiu–l sky. Ubkt aklm yiu tkhm tbkt
kpprik`b9 Tc`h? C siamijm cs cj kj kkcr, tbmrm cs siam sirt i kttrk`tcij, kjl C wkjt
ti ujlmrstkjl wbkt ct cs. Tiakjtc` priom`tcij cs pkrt i ct. Ks C amjtcijml dmirm, wm bkvm k tmjlmj`y ti smm iursmfvms tbriueb tbm myms i kjitbmr pmrsij. \m kkcr pkrtjmr– pkrt jmr–ss vcmw cs typc`kffy airm pisctcvm tbkj tbm vcmw i tbmcr aktm, dut tbmrm smmas ti dm airm. C–vm jitc`ml tbkt pmipfm cj kkcrs, ir mvmj smx kllc`ts, tmjl ti tkhm ij k jmw pmrsijk wbmj tbmy t bmy krm kwky ria tbmcr aktm, kjl tbmy tmjl ti fchm wbi tbmy krm cj tbmcr t bmcr itbmr rifm airm tbkj tbmy fchm wbi tbmy krm kt biam. \my oust lij–t lij–t hjiw biw ti dm tbcs itbmr pmrsij cj tbmcr akrrckem. \m akj ir wiakj wbi wks jmvmr riakjtc` ir mxprmsscvm cj tbmcr akrrckem cs jiw mxprmsscje bcs ir bmr mmfcjes kjl cs suppirtcvm. C tbmy bkl dmmj kdfm ti put tbkt skam kaiujt i kttmjtcij kttmjtcij cj tbmcr t bmcr akrrckem tbkt tbmy lcl cj tbmcr kkcr, kjl c tbmy bkl dmmj ks mxprmsscvm cj tbmcr akrrckem, tbmj tbcjes wiufl bkvm dmmj rklc`kffy lcmrmjt. Ucff? @kj tbism dmbkvcirs dm trkjsmrrml cjti k akrrckem9 Tc`h? \kt–s ijm i tbm eikfs. C lij–t wkjt tbm dmtrkyml spiusm ti try ti
maufktm tbm kkcr pkrtjmr, rktbmr C wkjt tbm ujkctbuf spiusm ti mxprmss, cj tbm akrrckem, kff tbm pkrts i bcasmf bm wks kdfm ti mxpmrcmj`m cj tbm t bm kkcr. Ct–s jit ujusukf ti smm siamijm akrrcml ti k strije `iapmtmjt wiakj bkvcje kj kkcr wctb k wmkhmr wiakj. \m kkcr kffiws bca ti smm bcasmf ks k rms`umr kjl bmfps bca mmf jmmlml. Pi tbmy put ij tbmcr supmrbmri `istuam kjl smt iut ti rms`um tbm lkasmf cj lcstrmss. \cs cs rmqumjtfy biw amj emt cjti kkcrs wctb strcppmrs ir pristctutms. pristctutms. \my mmf ‖tbcs pmrsij jmmls am.‑ Ubkt–s skl kdiut tbcs cs tbmcr wcm wiufl fivm ti bkvm k ‖hjcebt cj sbcjcje krair.‑ Dmcje `iapmtmjt kjl `kpkdfm limsj–t amkj tbm wcm limsj–t wkjt ti dm strihml kjl tkhmj `krm i. ]sukffy sbm oust limsj–t hjiw biw ti ksh ir wbkt sbm jmmls, ir bmr wky i kshcje aky k`tukffy oust pusb bca kwky kwky..
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Ucff? Biw li yiu kkcr-prii k akrrckem9 Tc`h ? Ks ^meey Wkuebj, kutbir i \m Aijiekay Aytb, Aytb, picjts iut, oust
dm`kusm yiu–rm akrrcml, lij–t kssuam aijiekay. 3 K``mpt tbkt ct–s bcebfy pridkdfm tbkt siamtcam cj tbm bcstiry i yiur akrrckem, yiu aky mxpmrcmj`m riakjtc` mmfcjes ir siamijm itbmr tbkj yiur aktm. \kt wiufl dm jirakf. Um lij–t `ijtrif tbm pbyscifiec`kf mmfcjes i lmscrm, dut tbcs cj ji wky amkjs wm ji fijemr `krm ir iur aktm. Smt, c tbism mmfcjes rmakcj bcllmj, tbmy `kj mstmr kjl eriw. Lmvmfip k rmfktcijsbcp wbmrm yiu `kj mxpism rieum lmscrms cj irlmr ti pritm`t tbm akrrckem. Kssuam tbkt kkcrs `kj bkppmj. \kt–s tbm rst tbcje C tmk`b ay `iupfms ti hmmp tbma ria bkvcje kkcrs. Kfwkys eukrl tbm cjtmercty i tbm akrrckem. Ecvm pmracsscij ti ksh qumstcijs rmekrlcje krmks i tmaptktcij, tmaptktcij, ir tbm skhm i tbm akrrckem. Ay wcm kshs qumstcijs kff tbm tcam? ‖Cs tbmrm kjydily rcebt jiw tbkt yiu–rm yiu–rm kttrk`tml ti9 Kjy pfk`m yiu–rm yiu–rm strueefcje9‑ C C–a bkvcje k bkrl tcam, C–ff tmff bmr C–a bkvcje k bkrl tcam. Ct surm akhms ct k fit fmss tmaptcje. Cj k`t, ct mvmj smmas hcjl i scffy k fit i tcams. t cams. Ij`m C drcje ct iut ti tbm fcebt kjl stkrt tkfhcje kdiut ct kjl mxpism ct, tbm tmaptktcij limsj–t limsj–t smma jmkrfy si kppmkfcje. Kjitbmr wky ti bmfp stkvm i kkcrs cs ti erkjt yiur spiusm k``mss ti makcf kjl `mff pbijms. C cjtcak`y cs tbm kdcfcty ti dm hjiwj, tbmj C `kj smm ji rmksij ti bclm cjiraktcij ria yiur aktm kjl bcjlmr cjtcak`y. Gcjkffy, kvicl akhcje smmacjefy ujcapirtkjt lm`cscijs tbkt lm`cscijs tbkt fmkl ti ir `rmktm bceb-rcsh sctuktcijs. ;> Ucff? Ecvm am kj mxkapfm. Tc`h ? Gir cjstkj`m, ks wm amjtcijml prmvciusfy, ij k duscjmss trcp, c yiu
akhm tbm lm`cscij ti mkt kfijm wctb siamijm yiu jl kttrk`tcvm, kssuacje jitbcje wcff mvmr bkppmj, tbcs cs k smmacjefy ujcapirtkjt lm`cscij. Smt Smt ct cs `mrtkcj jitbcje wcff bkppmj c yiu kvicl puttcje puttcje yiursmf kt rcsh cj tbm rst pfk`m. Kjitbmr mxkapfm? Gir k smx kllc`t, k smmacjefy ujcapirtkjt lm`cscij cs ecvcje yiursmf pmracsscij ti sur tbm Cjtmrjmt, siambiw tbcjhcje yiu wij–t ei ti k pirj sctm. C yiu kvicl su`b bceb-rcsh sctuktcijs, tbm prid-
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kdcfcty i siamtbcje bkppmjcje eims wky liwj. Fmt am sky tbkt tbmrm–s tbmrm–s jitbcje wrije wctb duscjmss trcps ir tbm Cjtmrjmt, dut pfk`cje yiursmf kt rcsh kjl dmcje ujkwkrm i tbkt rcsh cj`rmksms tbm pridkdcfcty i cjlmfcty bkppmjcje. Ucff? Cs tbmrm mvmr k jmml ti tmff `bcflrmj kdiut kj kkcr9 Tc`h ? \m yiujemr tbm `bcflrmj krm, C tbcjh tbm airm capirtkjt ct cs ti
pritm`t tbma. \m fkst tbcje k `bcfl jmmls cs ti `krry tbm durlmj i tbmcr pkrmjts– pkrmjts– acstkhms. C tbm `bcflrmj bkvm bmkrl tbcjes kjl krm kshcje qumstcijs, tbmj yiu aky jmml ti dm airm ipmj. Pm`rm`y cs bkrauf kjl prmtmjlcje `kj dm mvmj m vmj wirsm. Ij tbm itbmr bkjl c tbmy lij–t lij–t hjiw kjytbcje kdiut ct, tbmj hmmpcje tbma iut i ct aky dm tbm hcjlmst tbcje yiu `kj li, mvmj c tbmrm krm kluft `bcflrmj. K `iaaij acstkhm cjvifvcje cjvifvcje `bcflrmj cs ti dmecj uscje tbma ks `ijlkjts. @bcflrmj lij–t lij–t bkvm tbm maitcijkf akturcty jm`msskry ti bkjlfm tbkt cjiraktcij kjl ct rids tbma i tbmcr `bcflbiil. Ppiusc`ktcij i k `bcfl (sbkrcje lmtkcfs kjl pri`msscje cjiraktcij ks yiu wiufl wctb k spiusm) cs kduscvm kjl `rmktms lmmp pridfmas ir k `bcfl. Ubmj pkrmjts smpkrktm, smpkrktm, tbmy jmml ti lm`clm tiemtbmr wbkt w bkt tbm stiry cs eicje ti dm kjl tmff tbm `bcflrmj tiemtbmr, tiemtbmr, scttcje tiemtbmr ij tbm skam sik. Mvmj tbiueb k busdkjl kjl wcm aky mvmjtukffy lcvir`m, lcvir`m, tbmy wcff jmvmr dm kdfm ti tmracjktm tbmcr rmspijscdcfcty ks Aia kjl Lkl. Gir tbkt rmksij tbm `bcflrmj jmml ti dm rmkssurml tbkt tbmy wcff stcf f dm lmkfcje wctb tbm `bcflrmj tiemtbmr. tiemtbmr. Ubmj tkfhcje ti `bcflrmj C sueemst tbkt tbm t bm ujkctbuf pmrsij acebt sky siamtbcje fchm tbcs? ‑C lclj–t fivm (trmkt) yiur ktbmr tbm wky tbkt akrrcml pmipfm sbiufl fivm (trmkt) mk`b itbmr.‑ \kt–s trutbuf. Ct–s jit lmjycje tbm prmsmj`m i k tbcrl pkrty, dut ct limsj–t ri`h tbmcr wirfl dy kjjiuj`cje kj ujhjiwj tbcrl pkrty. Ucff? Cs tbmrm kjytbcje mfsm yiu wkjt ti sky cj `fiscje9 Tc`h? ^mipfm jmml ti hjiw tbkt tbmrm cs bipm. Akrrckems `kj rm`ij`cfm, kjl
wbcfm tbkt aky jit smma fchm k vckdfm `bic`m, ct cs `mrtkcjfy k pktb jmmlcje `ijsclmrktcij. Cjctckffy, Cjctckffy, tbm pkcj `kj dm si cjtmjsm kjl tbm lcstrust si ermkt
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tbkt tbmrm aky dm ji lmscrm ti mxpfirm tbcs pisscdcfcty, dut dut ir aist, tbcs wcff privm ti dm tbmcr ermktmst `bkj`m ir jlcje tbm fcm tbmy wkjt. \m ippirtujcty ir lcvir`m wcff kfwkys mxcst, dut ippirtujctcms ir mxpfircje tbm riit pridfmas kjl ir pmrsijkf eriwtb krm dmst d mst iujl prcir ti pursucje k lcvir`m. C strijefy mj`iurkem yiu, c yiu–rm `kuebt cj tbm pkcj `rmktml dy k dmtrkykf, ti ecvm yiursmf k ec kjl wirh tbriueb tbm pkcj kjl jl tbm kjswmrs. ^fmksm jitm, qumstcijs krm juadmrml lcmrmjtfy cj mk`b wirhdiih. Piam qumstcijs aky shcp juadmrs, dut tbcs lims jit amkj yiu krm acsscje qumstcijs. \bm qumstcijs tbkt krm tbm skam cj ditb diihs wcff bkvm tbm skam juadmrs, tbm qumstcijs tbkt krm lcmrmjt wcff bkvm lcmrmjt juadmrs. \bcs cs si tbm qumstcijs krm mksy ti rmgmr ti ij tbm `kff. Cj sbirt, lij–t wirry kdiut qumstcij juadmrs cg tbmy smma `ijguscje. Siur eriup fmklmr wcff hjiw wbmrm ti jl wbkt yiu jmml.
Kgtmr rmklcje tbm cjtmrvcmw, kjswmr tbm giffiwcje qumstcij cj yiur iwj wirhdiih
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Gcjlcje Pcebt cj Siur Lkrhjmss Ij`m ks k yiuje tmmj, C wmjt swcaacje fktm kt jcebt wctb rcmjls. Ji ijm bkl wkrjml us i tbm lkjemrs i swcaacje ujlmr wktmr cj tbm lkrh. Ouapcje i k 0>-iit `fc cj tbm lkrh i jcebt wks k rusb, dut wbkt C lclj–t kjtc`cpktm wks ay cjkdcfcty ti jl ay wky dk`h ti tbm surk`m. \mrm wks ji `fum wbc`b wky wks up. C `ijtcjuml ti swca, dut =7
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wctb ji wky i hjiwcje c C wks akhcje priermss. \m mmfcje i wmcebtfmssjmss kjl tbm kdsmj`m i scebt cj tbm titkf lkrhjmss fm am fist kjl `fumfmss ks ti wbc`b wky wks up. Kmr wbkt smmaml kj mtmrjcty (C–a surm ct wks ijfy kdiut 0> sm`ijls, dut ct mft fchm k fcmtcam ti am), ria tbm lkrh i tbm sbirm, ijm i tbm euys fflcppml ij k fcebt. Uctb scebt rmstirml, C wks skvml. \m ec i scebt wks kff C jmmlml ti jl ay wky iut i ay bipmfmss lcfmaak. \m pridfma ir `iupfms capk`tml dy dmtrkykf cs au`b tbm skam. \m rmkfcty fmkvms tbma mmfcje fist kjl bipmfmss. \my lij–t lij–t hjiw c tbmy krm eicje up ir liwj, c tbmy krm aivcje tiwkrl bmkftb ir tbmcr iwj pmrsijkf lmstru`tcij. Uirsm, ct–s jit uj`iaaij ir tbm rcebt tbcje ti mmf fchm tbm wrije tbcje. Ubkt ct tkhms ti rm`ivmr cs imj pkrklixc`kf. Uctbiut Uctbiut k fcebt dmcje `kst cjti tbm lkrhjmss, ct–s ct–s kfaist capisscdfm ti ekcj k trum pmrspm`tcvm i tbm fkjls`kpm kjl kj ujlmrstkjlcje ks ti wbc`b wky ti ei. Cj tbcs pri`mss, tbkt fcebt `iams ks mk`b spiusm–s mmfcjes krm vkfclktml, lcrm`tcijs krm imrml, kjl wkrjcjes krm ecvmj. \cs ‖fcebt‑ aitcvktms k `iupfm–s lmscrm ti dmecj ti aivm iut i tbm lkrhjmss kjl `ijsclmr tbm pri`mss i rm`ivmry. Ks yiu dmecj tbcs oiurjmy wctb yiur spiusm, usm tbm ‖fcebt‑ yiu krm ecvmj mk`b wmmh ti priermss ti tbm jmxt stmp tiwkrl rm`ivmry.
Siur Gcrst Eriup @kff Dmirm yiu dmecj yiur rst eriup e riup ammtcje, yiu wcff bkvm rm`mcvml tbm cjstru`tcijs cjstru`tc ijs ir biw ti `kff cj, kjl wcff bkvm dmmj rmacjlml i tbm euclmfcjms ir eriup pkrtc`cpktcij, mstkdfcsbml ti akcjtkcj stru`turm kjl pritm`t prcvk`y. Siu kfsi sbiufl bkvm vcmwml tbcs wmmh–s vclmi kjl `iapfmtml tbm wirhdiih smsscij. \m `ijtmjt ir mk`b wmmh wcff idvciusfy `bkjem lmpmjlcje ij tbm tipc` dmcje lcs`ussml. Biwmvmr, Biwmvmr, tbm irakt wcff iffiw k `ijscstmjt `ijscstmjt kemjlk mk`b wmmh? •
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^krtc`cpktm cj yiur wmmhfy eriup ammtcje. Ks yiu ammt, bkvm yiur jitms kjl kjswmrs gria tbm cjtmrvcmw kvkcfkdfm ti sbkrm cj lcs`usscij. Siu wcff kfsi dm kshml cg yiu bkvm kermml ti kjl scej ml tbm `ijtrk`t.
@ij`fuscij \m rikl kbmkl cs pkcjuf kjl `bkffmjecje. Ct cs dmst jit ti tbcjh kdiut tbm fmjetb i tbm oiurjmy, oiurjmy, ks tbcs `kj dm ivmrwbmfacje. ivmrwbmfacje. Siur Siur pktb ti bmkfcje jmmls jmmls ti dm tkhmj acjutm-dy-acjutm, biur-dy-biur, kjl lky-dy-lky. \mrm cs bipm. Ks yiu priermss tbriueb MAP Ijfcjm kjl rm`ivmry, rm`ivmry, wm trust tr ust tbkt tbm ermktmst e rmktmst dmjmt wiufl dm tbkt yiu wcff smm kjl hjiw Eil kjl Bcs fivm ks jmvmr dmirm. Biwmvmr, mvmj c kctb cs siamtbcje tbkt–s jit k pkrt i yiur fcm, C dmfcmvm tbkt yiu `kj dmjmt ria tbmsm aktmrckfs. Lmpmjlcje ij yiur dmfcms, yiu aky jmml ti cejirm tbm t bm rmmrmj`ms ti Eil kjl Omsus. Kj ktbmcst cj ijm i iur eriups rmpfk`ml tbmsm rmmrmj`ms wctb tbm wirl bipm. bipm. \kt wirhml ir bmr. ]ftcaktmfy, aktmfy, C dmfcmvm d mfcmvm mvmryijm km`tml `kj bkvm pmk`m kjl bmkfcje c tbmy usm tbmsm tiifs ti aivm tbriueb lcff`uft `cr`uastkj`ms `cr`uastkj`ms tbmy jmvmr mxpm`tml ti dm d m cj.
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