[CONDENSED ALPHA GUIDE]
Outer-characteristics & body language
Inner-characteristics 1. Leader der of of men 2. Decis Decisive ive,, asser asserti tive ve,, but not not controlling 3. Firm Firm in his values values and identit identity: y: self self-assured as to who he really is 4. Confident 5. Does Does not not take anything anything persona personally lly 6. Lack Lack of outc outcom omee depend dependenc ence: e: just just enjoys the process 7. Fully Fully engag engaged ed in in the the pres present ent moment moment 8. Unst Unstre resse ssed d and care carefre free: e: walk walkss through the world with ease 9. NonNon-ju judg dgme ment ntal al 10. Interes Interesting ting 11. Risk-t Risk-taker aker 12. Ambitio Ambitious us 13. Non-reactive Non-reactive and and non-reaction non-reaction seeking 14. Has mindset mindset that he is the catch/prize catch/prize.. 15. Doesn’t give a fuck fuck about seeking seeking others’ approval 16. Protective Protective of close friends/fam friends/family ily 17. Great story-teller story-teller 18. Never gives excuses excuses 19. Acts like like a man who is busy busy and has things going on in his life 20. Not afraid afraid to state true true opinion opinion on something 21. Not a people pleaser: pleaser: calls calls people out if they deserve it 22. Brings their their state from from within, within, not dependent on the environment 23. Has an an abundance abundance mindset mindset 24. Tells, doesn’t doesn’t ask (e.g. (e.g. take my hand, hand, follow me, wait for me) 25. Makes people people feel feel comfortable comfortable in his presence presence 26. Expresses Expresses polite polite & calm authority, authority, without aggressiveness. 27. Calm under pressure pressure 28. Projects Projects happiness happiness and contributes contributes to making the atmosphere more fun
1. Anim Animat ated ed face face 2. Expres Expressive sive with with your your hand gesture gesturess without overdoing it 3. Keep Keepss chin chin up duri during ng inte intera racti ction on 4. Smiles Smiles when when it is approp appropria riate te but doesn’t over do it 5. Has Has tonal tonalit ity y to his his voice voice,, avoids avoids monotone sound 6. Talks Talks slow slowly, ly, rhythmic rhythmicall ally, y, and and with with pauses and emphasis emphasis 7. Never Never put putss hands hands in pock pocket etss or in in front of face 8. Hold Holdss drink drink by side side,, not by ches chestt 9. Looks Looks relax relaxed ed and and eas easy-g y-goi oing ng 10. Looks unique unique in his style and and appearance: stands out 11. Well-dresse Well-dressed d and well-groomed well-groomed 12. Looks unaffecte unaffected d by shit tests tests and rude remarks 13. Takes up space space with with his body: leans leans back and has has a significant significant physical physical presence presence 14. Doesn’t walk, walk, but struts. struts. Takes Takes his time without rushing to get anywhere 15. Doesn’t Doesn’t fidg fidget et 16. Not afraid afraid to touch a girl girl during conversation 17. Maintains Maintains eye contact, contact, never never looks below her her mouth mouth
